Tuesday, March 10, 2015

Monsters lurking the dark?

ISIS, climate change, Federal debt – do these things concern you?  Maybe they are too far removed to make you worry, but you are anxious about your job, or some problem with your health, or even thoughts of aging and the limits that come with it.  We all worry, sometime, about something.  I am not by nature a fretter, but anxiety does creep up on me occasionally.  Sometimes it shows up in the middle of the night, stealing sleep.  Or it may visit in the afternoon announcing that it is here with the arrival of a headache or tense, cramped muscles.  When fear sets up camp on the periphery of my life and I do not recognize it for too long, the apprehension morphs into depression.
Anxiety disorders cause many people terrible emotional pain. Some become so fearful of the world that they are paralyzed and unable to go to work. Others live in a constant state of heightened awareness almost in panic. Some traumatic event can set off an episode.  For others, the cause is unknown.
God addresses our fears repeatedly in the Scripture with a clear admonition – “Fear not!”  He does not scoff at our fears nor does He promise us a life without difficulties. Faithful Christians are not removed from the world, they walk in it. But, they never walk alone. God has said,  Never will I leave you;  never will I forsake you.   So we say with confidence, The Lord is my helper; I will not be afraid. What can man do to me?  (Hebrews 13:5-6)  Do you believe that?
Living with that confidence requires vision.  The starting point for conquering our fear is not to diminish it, but to replace it.  A parent can argue endlessly with his little boy about the imaginary monster that lives under his bed in the night. Is there a monster there? Certainly not, but in that little boy’s mind, every shadow on the wall, every creak in the wall, confirms what he feels!  The only way to overcome his fear is to turn on the light and dispel the darkness.  Our prayer, in the face of fear, must start with a prayer for the Light to shine in our heart.  “Lord, shine Your light. Come and make Your Presence known,” we pray.
John, the writer of the last book in the Bible, knew personally the awful persecution that Rome was bringing down on the Christians who would not worship the Emperor. He had suffered and many around him were suffering as well.  In that time, God came to him and gave him the Revelation!  It’s a book full of images of blood, war, and destruction.  Woven through the whole of the book there is a theme of victory, of ultimate vindication.  If you have not read it recently, I recommend it.  As you open the book, you will note that the first quarter is devoted to creating a picture of the Risen Christ, Lord of Glory!   The gentle Savior of the Gospels is now the Conquering Lord.  John saw that "His head and hair were white like wool, as white as snow, and his eyes were like blazing fire. His feet were like bronze glowing in a furnace, and his voice was like the sound of rushing waters. In his right hand he held seven stars, and out of his mouth came a sharp double-edged sword. His face was like the sun shining in all its brilliance. When I saw him, I fell at his feet as though dead.”  Yes, this vision was, at first, terrifying, but then John says that  “he placed his right hand on me and said: “Do not be afraid. I am the First and the Last." (Revelation 1:14-17, NIV)
Christians need not let our culture of fear overwhelm them. They need not surrender to feelings of helplessness and terror. Why? Because we are walking with the King.  Even death itself is no threat to those whose lives are hidden in Christ.  John did not, as so many preachers do today, promise the saints of the first century a life of comfort.  He did not tell them to pray harder to make the persecutors from the Empire go away. Rather, he counsels them to look higher, to secure themselves in the Promise of their God.
Whatever your trials, whatever your fears – only a greater vision of the Lord will relieve them.  Here is the word from the Word. Lord, make us fearless. Shine the Light into our lives and break the grip of fears – from threats both real and imagined. Amen.    "I answered, “Sir, you know.” And he said, “These are they who have come out of the great tribulation; they have washed their robes and made them white in the blood of the Lamb. Therefore, “they are before the throne of God and serve him day and night in his temple; and he who sits on the throne will spread his tent over them. Never again will they hunger; never again will they thirst. The sun will not beat upon them, nor any scorching heat. For the Lamb at the center of the throne will be their shepherd; he will lead them to springs of living water. And God will wipe away every tear from their eyes.” (Revelation 7:14-8:1, NIV)
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A Mighty Fortress Is Our God
A mighty fortress is our God,
A bulwark never failing.
Our helper, He, amid the flood
Of mortal ills prevailing.
For still our ancient foe,
Doth seek to work us woe,
His craft and power are great,
And armed with cruel hate,
On earth is not his equal.

Did we in our own strength confide
Our striving would be losing!
Were not the right man on our side
The man of God's own choosing!
Dost ask who that may be?
Christ Jesus, it is He!
Lord Sabaoth, His name,
From age to age, the same.
And He must win the battle.

And though this world
With devils filled,
Should threaten to undo us.
We will not fear
For God hath willed
His truth to triumph through us!
The prince of darkness, grim,
We tremble not for him.
His rage we can endure,
For, lo, his doom is sure.
One little word shall fell him.

That word above all earthly pow'rs,
No thanks to them abideth.
The Spirit and the gifts are ours,
Through Him who with us sideth!
Let goods and kindred go,
This mortal life also.
The body they may kill
God's truth abideth still,
His kingdom is forever!

Martin Luther
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Monday, March 09, 2015

For A Hungry Man, Even a Bowl of Rice can be a Feast

Morning mornings are different for pastors than for most people.  For the majority, Monday is ‘back to work’ day.  For many pastors it is a ‘day off,’ and a day to evaluate!  Most Mondays I spend some time thinking about the how the various activities of the church went.  Invariably, part of my thoughts go to the worship experience.  My greatest desire during that 90 minutes of ‘church’ is that those gathered will know that the Lord is present and be encouraged to serve Him joyfully in the week they face.  My Monday thoughts often drift toward things like – “Did the people enjoy being there?   Did they understand the sermon? Did I connect with audience? Was the music artfully presented to enhance the worshiper’s experience?”   Do you see the mistake in those queries?  They are about a performance, as if church were a theater. The important questions are much more basic.  I should be asking myself,  “Was God pleased?” and “Was He the center of our praise?”
When you go to 'church?' what expectations do you take along?  Do you think about the preacher's delivery of the sermons, the singers' songs, the comfort of the building?   Or are you hungry to meet with God in a specially focused way, offering yourself to Him, listening to Him, renewing your devotion to Him?  To a hungry man, a simple bowl of rice can be a feast!
If the sound system screeches, or if the music is terrible, or if the preaching is disjointed, we may think more about those things than about the Lord.  And yet....  we can meet Him anywhere, if we turn our attention to Him.  Chapel or cathedral, He is the same.  Each month I lead a worship service at a nursing home. The room where we meet is drab, the piano badly out of tune. Some of the congregants fall asleep during the service.  Some are confused about what we are doing and ask when the food will be served. Some cannot follow the words of the hymns and ‘sing’ the wrong song or verse.  Somehow, when I opened that service with a prayer for us to know the Presence of God, He answered.  The mechanics were all wrong  but the Person of the Spirit was there. I left with a peaceful sense that He had met the 20 of us in that basement room.   That experience reminded me of the importance of making worship about Him, rather than about us.
Worship does not begin and end when you pass through the church doors. Worship is a way of life. Just as ‘church’ is not a performance, so our daily worship is not about the mechanics. Let’s not get lost in counting the chapters we read from the Bible, the minutes we spend in prayer.  Instead, each day let us bring our attention to the Holy One, opening to His love.  Worship is simply ‘proclaiming His worth!’   It flows from the attitude of our heart.  If He is the Lord of our heart and mind, He will be worshiped in our words and actions. And surely if we are worshippers who bring our attention to Him during our commute, in our living rooms, at the lunch room table - we will be better worshipers during the worship service!
Here is the word from the Word.  Lord, help us to live in such a way that we are worshipers in Spirit and in Truth, everywhere, all the time. 
"So here’s what I want you to do, God helping you: Take your everyday, ordinary life—your sleeping, eating, going-to-work, and walking-around life—and place it before God as an offering. Embracing what God does for you is the best thing you can do for him. Don’t become so well-adjusted to your culture that you fit into it without even thinking. Instead, fix your attention on God. You’ll be changed from the inside out. Readily recognize what He wants from you, and quickly respond to it." (Romans 12:1-2, The Message)
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Come as a wisdom to children,
Come as new sight to the blind.
Come, Lord, as strength to my weakness,
Take me soul, body, and mind.

Come Holy Spirit, I need Thee.
Come, sweet Spirit, I pray.
Come in Thy strength and Thy power;
Come in Thy own gentle way.

Come like a spring in the desert.
Come to the withered of soul.
O, let Thy sweet healing power.
Touch me and make me whole.

Gloria Gaither | William J. Gaither
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Friday, March 06, 2015

A Few Words for Your Wedding Day

My niece, Jana, gets married today.  CWTW is an open letter for Jana and Marc.
Dear Marc and Jana,
Congratulations on your wedding day.  Becoming husband and wife is a wonderful thing, creating the possibility of the deepest joy or terrible sorrow.  No other decision has greater consequence for the rest of your life than the choice of a spouse. God celebrates you today! 
The best marriage is built on mutual love for the Lord, not sexual chemistry though sex is a gift of God!  Great marriages are not formed around personal compatibility even though it is best to share common values and ideals with our spouse. Your marriage will be strongest if you understand that you are making a covenant together with God at the center.  Yes, if each of you loves God even more than you love each other, He will draw you into a relationship that is rock-solid, deeply rewarding, with intimacy that others will envy.  Some bring expectations to marriage that are unreasonable.  “He/She will complete me, erasing all my disappointment in life,” is a common one. That idea makes for good movies but not for a good life. Your partner is just human.  He (generic use here) cannot possibly meet all your emotional or spiritual needs. Only Jesus can satisfy your soul.  So, stay strong in the Lord. Love Him and as He makes you whole, forgives you, and heals your hurts, from that strength you will be a great lover, bringing a whole person, not a broken one into the marriage.
Be flexible and learn to accept the changes that inevitably come to us all.  No matter how much you plan, life is beyond your control.  Too many marriages fail when crisis/change comes. Why? Because a spouse is too ready to ‘blame’ the other one for the unpleasantness of the moment.  When the storms blow, and they will, hang onto each other for dear life!  Your love will grow in ways you cannot begin to imagine in those difficult times, if you trust each other and God instead of looking for somebody to blame for your misery.
Be content. The flame of your love will sometimes burn brightly and some days will be like a candle’s glow. In those latter times, you are not a terrible person because you feel some unhappiness or wonder about your future together.  That’s normal. It’s called ‘being human.’  But, as the Word teaches, ‘guard your heart.’   The grass really isn’t greener on the other side of the fence, so do not compare your marriage, envy your friend’s relationship, or spend wasted time in fantasies.  Keep your heart at home and work together at finding your way through the valleys.
Settle each day’s debt that day. God’s wisdom - “don’t sin by letting anger gain control over you.” Don’t let the sun go down while you are still angry, for anger gives a mighty foothold to the Devil." (Ephesians 4:26-27, NLT)  In your conflicts, and two real people will have conflict,  remember that your goal in never to win. It is to resolve the issue.  There is a huge difference!
Ask for help!  No problem you encounter in your relationship is new or unique. We are amazingly complex beings.  Our best and worst traits, habits, and peculiarities show up at home where we feel safest. You probably will not believe me, but that little weird thing that you find so cute about her/him right now will likely become the  thing that sets you off when you deal with it day in and day out.  If you run into a rough spot, find a wise, older, godly person or couple who can listen, pray, and encourage you.  Someday, when you have been married for decades you will be able to share your discoveries with some young couple.  That’s the way God meant it to be.
And, celebrate each other.  Find reasons to cook special meals, to buy flowers, to leave notes, to say wonderful things. Love is not rocket science, it’s just learning to be aware of your partner and affirming her worth daily.  Plenty of people will criticize that person you live with. Don’t be one of them.  Add value with words and actions.  Are they perfect? No, but neither are you.  Celebrate who they are. Make a big deal of their successes, soothe their feelings when they fail. 
I pray that today is one you will remember with the greatest joy for many years to come, that you will live in God’s blessings, and most of all – that your marriage will reflect the goodness and grace of God into your world.  
Memorize this and choose to live it. 
"Love never gives up. 
Love cares more for others than for self. 
Love doesn’t want what it doesn’t have. 
Love doesn’t strut, doesn’t have a swelled head, 
doesn’t force itself on others, isn’t always “me first,” 
doesn’t fly off the handle, 
doesn’t keep score of the sins of others, 
doesn’t revel when others grovel, 
takes pleasure in the flowering of truth, puts up with anything, 
trusts God always, always looks for the best, 
never looks back, but keeps going to the end.
Love never dies.Inspired speech will be over some day;praying in tongues will end;understanding will reach its limit." (1 Corinthians 13:4-8, The Message) 
"But for right now, until that completeness, 
we have three things to do to lead us toward that consummation: 
Trust steadily in God, 
hope unswervingly, 
love extravagantly.
And the best of the three is love." (1 Corinthians 13:13, The Message)
Love you both,
Uncle Jerry

Thursday, March 05, 2015

So, you're afraid? What now?



After a phone call yesterday, I felt real fear.  For a few moments I was “Chicken Little,” certain that the sky was falling.  What will I do? How will I ever deal with this?  Realizing that descending into panic  is an exercise in futility, I collected myself, turned to the Lord in prayer, put on some music that encouraged my soul, and talked with a friend.  In a matter of moments I  found my footing and put things into the proper perspective. The problem that I face is a real one, the potential for a negative impact on my life exists.  It is not denial that secures me, it is faith in my status as God’s child and the sure knowledge that all things that come into my life are known to Him and – if I give them to Him – will ultimately serve His purposes.

Fear can do strange and terrible things to us, if we allow it to take hold of us.  Don’t give it a foothold!  There is a better way.

In Exodus God tells us the story of the deliverance of His people from Egypt.  After the 10 plagues Pharaoh finally let them go, sending a nation of slaves off with Moses leading the way. "When word reached the king of Egypt that the Israelites were not planning to return to Egypt after three days, Pharaoh and his officials changed their minds. “What have we done, letting all these slaves get away?” they asked. So Pharaoh called out his troops and led the chase in his chariot." (Exodus 14:5-6, NLT)    God’s people were camped at the Red Sea, water in front of them, the elite forces of Egypt coming at them from behind.  Guess what happened! Yes, they panicked!  In spite of all they had seen God do, they let fear choke them.  "As Pharaoh approached, the Israelites looked up and saw them—Egyptians! Coming at them! They were totally afraid. They cried out in terror to God. They told Moses, “Weren’t the cemeteries large enough in Egypt so that you had to take us out here in the wilderness to die? What have you done to us, taking us out of Egypt? Back in Egypt didn’t we tell you this would happen? Didn’t we tell you, ‘Leave us alone here in Egypt—we’re better off as slaves in Egypt than as corpses in the wilderness.’ ”  (Exodus 14:10-12, The Message)

Can you identify with their terror?  There were no obvious solutions, no place to turn – from a human point of view. How like our lives, isn’t it? But Moses reminded them that they belonged to the living God. “Don’t be afraid. Stand firm and watch God do his work of salvation for you today. Take a good look at the Egyptians today for you’re never going to see them again." (Exodus 14:13, The Message)   It was now faith-walking time for Moses. What was he going to do? What did God have in mind?

Apparently, he kept his own fear hidden from everyone but cried out to God in private. I love the text. "And the Lord said to Moses, “Why do you cry to Me? Tell the children of Israel to go forward." (Exodus 14:15, NKJV)  Stop bawling and get moving.  Then the Lord told him to get out in front of the people and stand beside the Red Sea. There he was to raise his staff and hold it over the water. God said it would part and the people would walk through on dry land!  I wonder if Moses wanted to say, “God, You said to do what?”   The man exercised faith and did what God asked. Only then did the path to deliverance appear.

Are you paralyzed by some problem?  Are you sitting around crying about it, worrying over it, fretting?  Take control of your emotions.  Call a friend of mature faith and let them pray for you, counsel you.  Hit your knees and not to cry, but to worship and wait! Murmur the truth about God’s sovereign power, His ability to change disaster to deliverance. "Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth! " (Psalm 46:10, NKJV)

Here’s the word from the Word.  I pray we will own it and live the Truth!
"I know that you sincerely trust the Lord . . . This is why I remind you to fan into flames the spiritual gift God gave you . . .  For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity, but of power, love, and self-discipline. So you must never be ashamed to tell others about our Lord. . . .  It is God who saved us and chose us to live a holy life. He did this not because we deserved it, but because that was his plan long before the world began—to show his love and kindness to us through Christ Jesus." (2 Timothy 1:5-9, NLT)
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My Lord Knows The Way

My Lord knows the way
Thro' the wilderness,
All I have to do is follow!

Strength for today is mine always,
And all I need for tomorrow.
My Lord knows the way,
Thro' the wilderness,
All I have to do is follow.

Sidney Edward Cox
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