How will you feel on December 26th?

Reading that title line you're likely thinking, 'what the rush? Let's just enjoy the holiday.' You're right. But, living 'in the moment' has a limit and we all need to keep in mind that today forms tomorrow's foundation. How you act over the next 72 hours will surely affect the way that you feel on 12/26! So lay a foundation for joy. How?

First of all, deal with your expectations of Christmas! It's just a day. No, I'm not Ebenezer Scrooge. I am as excited as I can be about having my children back home for a few days, playing with my grandsons, swapping old stories, having a table full of conversation! But when the party's over, life will resume. If we put too many expectations on the day, the 26th will dawn with disappointment. Better to simply enjoy life as it unfolds and thank God for the serendipitous moments that find you. If you overload the day with great expectations, even one disappointment can obscure a hundred blessings.

Second, keep the focus where it belongs. This is Jesus' birthday party. If we get trapped by a misplaced emphasis on the external stuff of Christmas and, in the process of getting our various 'to-do' lists checked off, we will live right through the holiday and miss the meaning. It's a 'Holy-day' primarily. Yep, Americans made it into a festival of consumption... too much food, too much fun, too much spending. The fat guy in a red suit has mostly eclipsed the Babe in the manger. Don't get me wrong! I like Santa Claus. The jolly old man is a myth that captivates me even now. Who doesn't yearn for somebody to magically bring happiness, if even for a day, to all the kids of the world? But, even more, there is Wonder in the story of God giving the Gift of Himself to a broken world, changing sinners to saints, bringing alienated sons and daughters of God back home!

Third, be wise - financially, emotionally, spiritually. Holidays always create stresses. Old family issues surface as we rub shoulders with people we do not see the rest of the year. Obligations at home, work, and church pile up. Most of us will feel some need to try to settle old debts or to balance the scales; especially the emotional ones. There is a heart that beats in each of us that picks up on the longing for love and we'll try almost anything to feel the magic. Parties can set us up for mistakes. So, we will need insight, gentleness, and courage to navigate our way through these challenges successfully. If we don't, we may well wake up on the 26th missing the joy, with an aching head and a maxxed out credit card.

Keep LOVE in focus. Put people first. That is, after all, the meaning of Christmas! "For God so loved the world that he gave his only Son, so that everyone who believes in him will not perish but have eternal life. God did not send his Son into the world to condemn it, but to save it." (John 3:16-17, NLT)

The Spirit of God is here, near, right now. Pray to be in a place where He can touch your life with Light. Set times of prayer and contemplation at regular intervals, moments when your soul can breathe in the Breath of God.

... And you will surely know more joy on the 26th!

I pray that the LORD will bless your life today - with peace, with joy, with wholeness. Thank you for reading along each day.
CWTW will be back next week... sometime. Merry Christmas!
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O come, O come Emmanuel
And ransom captive Israel,
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear.

Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel,
Shall come to thee, O Israel!

O come, thou Wisdom from on high,
And order all things far and nigh;
To us the path of knowledge show
And cause us in her ways to go.

O come, thou Key of David, come,
And open wide our heavenly home.
The captives from their prison free,
And conquer death's deep misery.

Rejoice! Rejoice! Emmanuel,
Shall come to thee, O Israel!

John Neale, Henry S. Coffin
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Tourists or Residents?

I visited Israel a few years ago, spending 10 days there. But, I’ll be the first to tell you that despite having a marginally better understanding of that complex country, I really don’t know much about it at all. I saw much of the country, talked with a few of the people, and sampled the cuisine, but I’m no expert on Israeli society, culture, or politics just because I visited there once upon a time. Tourists are an interesting lot of people. They visit a region, eat in the best restaurants, see the most interesting sites, talk with a guide who is paid to tell them stories, and go home thinking they know the place. Residents know their country differently. Ask me about Northwest Jersey or Western Massachusetts! After spending much of my life in those two places, I know the kind of people who live there, the attitudes, ideals, politics.

Some approach their Christianity as tourists. They go to one church, then another; following this preacher, taking in that revival, going to hear the newest speaker on the circuit, attending a conference. Today they are a charismatic, tomorrow they’ll be Reformed, the year after that they’ll be Episcopalian! They might think they know something about being a disciple of Christ, but mostly they’re after an experience to distract them from their otherwise mundane life.

Other Christians are genuine residents of the Kingdom of God! They are living the life of a disciple, serving the King by serving the needs of those around them. They are faithful to the Body of Christ through good times and bad; have endured bad preachers with grace, and know the meaning of walking in the Spirit even when they’re just struggling to put one foot in front of the other in life. They know that being a Christian isn’t just an experience. They desire so much more than a chill or a diversion, and so they seek to know the King and His people intimately.

Jesus Christ was a resident! The Bible says: "The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth." (John 1:14, NIV) The Message makes it even more clear: "The Word became flesh and blood, and moved into the neighborhood." (John 1:14, The Message) He knows us, understands us, cries with us, laughs with us, prays for us. Take your cue from Him, Christian. Move into His Kingdom. Dwell with His people! Only then will you know the full experience of discipleship and find the abundance of life He promised to those who follow Him wholeheartedly.

This week, as we celebrate Christmas, I pray that the wonder of “God in flesh” will captivate you. Let the story of a Baby in a manger, on a side street in a little town called Bethlehem, cause you to know the old yet always new truth of Immanuel, God with us.
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O come all ye faithful,
Joyful and triumphant,
O come ye, O come ye to Bethlehem.
Come and behold Him,
Born the King of angels.

Sing choirs of angels,
Sing in exultation,
O sing all ye bright
Hosts of heav'n above.
Glory to God,
All glory in the highest.

Yea, Lord, we greet Thee,
Born this happy morning;
Jesus to Thee be all glory giv'n.
Word of the Father
Now in flesh appearing.

O come let us adore Him,
O come let us adore Him,
O come let us adore Him,
Christ the Lord.

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