For whom are you dancing today? Well, perhaps you are not
actually dancing, but who are you trying to please? We all have some level of
need for appreciation, wanting to be liked. If we make that kind of approval
our first priority, misery is guaranteed. A hundred voices will call us to a
hundred pathways. Public pressure will try to squeeze us into conformity to a
dozen different sets of expectations.
Paul writes this, not from vanity, but with a laser-like focus. "We speak as men approved by God to be entrusted
with the gospel. We are not trying to please men but God, who tests our
hearts. You know we never used flattery, nor did we put on
a mask to cover up greed—God is our witness. We were not looking for praise from men, not from you or anyone else,"
(1 Thessalonians 2:3-6, NIV)
In ancient Israel, King David wanted to bring the symbol of
God’s Presence home to the city of Jerusalem. The story of his attempts has
some fails and missed cues, so when the day finally came for the Ark of the
Covenant to come to Jerusalem, he was overcome with joy in the Lord. As the
procession entered the city, he started to dance, then spin, and then… he shed
his royal robes, dancing in front of his people in just his tunic. In a sense,
he was down to his royal underwear: leaping,
dancing, and shouting the praises of God.
Some people were delighted by his enthusiasm, but not all! "Michal daughter of Saul (David’s wife) watched from a window. And when she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she despised him in her heart." (2 Samuel 6:16, NIV) When he got back to the palace, he expected to share his joy. Instead, she met him with her contempt. “How the king of Israel has distinguished himself today, disrobing in the sight of the slave girls of his servants as any vulgar fellow would!” Just to be clear – David was not naked. Her contempt came out of her notion that he had not kept his royal dignity intact.
Some people were delighted by his enthusiasm, but not all! "Michal daughter of Saul (David’s wife) watched from a window. And when she saw King David leaping and dancing before the Lord, she despised him in her heart." (2 Samuel 6:16, NIV) When he got back to the palace, he expected to share his joy. Instead, she met him with her contempt. “How the king of Israel has distinguished himself today, disrobing in the sight of the slave girls of his servants as any vulgar fellow would!” Just to be clear – David was not naked. Her contempt came out of her notion that he had not kept his royal dignity intact.
It remains a truth that when you devote yourself fully to
the Lord there will always be critics. Even some Christians will come to
despise you. Your devotion may challenge their apathy, the fire in your heart
exposing the coldness of theirs. In those situations it is much easier to turn
on the true worshiper, to criticize his devotion and/or his motive, than to
repent. If you listen to them they
will kill your joy, hinder your worship, and diminish your love of God.
We seek the applause of the “audience of One,”
to borrow the words of Kierkegaard. God’s
approval must be enough for us. It was for David. When his wife
mocked his worship, he told her: “It was before the Lord, who chose me
rather than your father or anyone from his house when he appointed me ruler
over the Lord’s people Israel—I will celebrate before the Lord. I will become
even more undignified than this, and I will be humiliated in my own eyes."
(2 Samuel 6:20-22, NIV)
Critics will turn you into a puppet dancing at the end of the
strings they pull. Gently, humbly, refuse their demands. Beware of arrogance or
pride that devalues the fellowship of Believers. We are part of His Body and submitted
to one another, and yet the deepest intimacy and our greatest sacrifice
generally will be reserved for God alone. Jesus warned that we can turn prayer
and worship into a performance designed to impress others. Our only reward, He
said, is their admiration.
Heaven falls silent when we start to dance for the crowd! But, there will be moments when the Spirit of God sweeps over us and we just forget ourselves, enthralled by His love. In those moments, we forget the critics. As Paul asks, Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10, NIV)
Heaven falls silent when we start to dance for the crowd! But, there will be moments when the Spirit of God sweeps over us and we just forget ourselves, enthralled by His love. In those moments, we forget the critics. As Paul asks, Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ." (Galatians 1:10, NIV)
Struggling with critics? Listening to many voices, feeling
pressure to conform? Here is the word from the Word. “Since we are
surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that
hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance
the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and
perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning
its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. Consider
him who endured such opposition from sinful men, so that you will not grow
weary and lose heart." (Hebrews 12:1-3, NIV)
For God, and God alone.
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(what or who is your foundation?)
Worthy of ev’ry song we could ever sing
Worthy of all the praise we could ever bring
Worthy of ev’ry breath we could ever breathe
We live for You
Jesus the name above ev’ry other name
Jesus the only one who could ever save
Worthy of ev’ry breath we could ever breathe
We live for You
We live for You
Holy there is no one like You
There is none besides You
Open up my eyes in wonder and show me who You are
And fill me with Your heart
And lead me in Your love to those around me
I will build my life upon Your love
It is a firm foundation
I will put my trust in You alone
And I will not be shaken
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