Friday, May 20, 2022

What a heart

 

The documentary was a sad story of fraud, one man’s choices that turned the lives of dozens of families upside down. I was moved with compassion, at first, for the woman who was the catalyst for legal action on behalf of those who shared her losses. But, as the story continued, I saw her sorrow change into anger and then to rage. No longer was she looking for justice. She lusted for revenge. The justice system did what it could to set things right but in her eyes in was ‘not enough.’    

The great tragedy is that she was doubly harmed, first by the original fraud, then by allowing the man who had defrauded her to ‘take over’ her life, filling her days with an endless quest to ‘make him pay.’  As the program closed, I prayed for her that she could find God’s grace, be touched by His love, and her heart be opened to the miracle of generous forgiveness.

Generosity is much more than giving to our church or a charity. Truly generous people invest themselves, their love in others. They are unconcerned about ‘fair shares’ preferring to trust God for enough. They seek to understand the faults and failures of others, realizing that ‘but for the grace of God, there go I.”   

Ponder this amazing declaration of God’s Word!  "When darkness overtakes the godly, light will come bursting in. They are generous, compassionate, and righteous. All goes well for those who are generous, who lend freely and conduct their business fairly. Such people will not be overcome by evil circumstances." (Psalm 112:4-6, NLT)  David says that the righteous "are always generous and lend freely; their children will be blessed." (Psalm 37:26, NIV)  

Yes, Christian, GENEROSITY is a way of life that comes from knowing we are richly resourced by our Heavenly Father. It flows out of a phrase I first learned from Stephen Covey, author of 7 Habits of Highly Effective People,  that speaks of living with an “abundance mentality.”   When we are convinced that there are enough resources to share with others we will live generously.  It is a spiritual principle that generosity multiplies our resources rather than diminishing them. Jesus said it first - "Give away your life; you’ll find life given back, but not merely given back—given back with bonus and blessing. Giving, not getting, is the way. Generosity begets generosity.” (Luke 6:38, The Message)

Those who give of themselves and their resources most generously are like their Father.  Consider the world He has created for us. It overflows with abundance.  Millions live in poverty that is the result of sin – greed, exploitation, abuse, and misuse of resources. (I am not shaming the poor!  Many are victims of others, oppressed by the powerful.)  The world in which we live has enough and more and when we learn the twin concepts of God’s provision and personal contentment, we will become truly rich and overflow with generosity from enlarged hearts.

One author says - “Generosity is a natural consequence of God’s creation of humanity. Generosity is a mark of one whose life is found in God’s saving work. Generosity is modeled by Jesus, and continued in His name by those who find their hope in Him. When such generosity is found, our culture and civilization will flourish!”  (Ty Benbow)

God’s generosity extends to our deepest need – to be loved. One of my favorite passages in the Bible tells me of the love we can know through Christ Jesus. "How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are! " (1 John 3:1, NIV)  Want to grow a great heart?  Need to find a way to forgive, to love, to live the richly resourced life that God desires for you? Start with the love of God for you.  By faith, receive His gift of grace, His forgiveness, and the restoration of your status as His own child. Held securely in His embrace we become people who love, who give as we have been given.

The word from the Word is often a text used in sermons about increased giving to Church. That is certainly one application of the principle, but it is bigger than your offering.  As you meditate on these words, may God’s generosity begin to transform you into a person who richly invests in others.  Here it is as translated in The Message: “God loves it when the giver delights in the giving. God can pour on the blessings in astonishing ways so that you’re ready for anything and everything, more than just ready to do what needs to be done. As one psalmist puts it, He throws caution to the winds, giving to the needy in reckless abandon. His right-living, right-giving ways never run out, never wear out. This most generous God who gives seed to the farmer that becomes bread for your meals is more than extravagant with you. He gives you something you can then give away, which grows into full-formed lives, robust in God, wealthy in every way, so that you can be generous in every way, producing with us great praise to God.” (2 Corinthians 9:7-11)  What a way to live.

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Alabaster Box

The room grew still
As she made her way to Jesus
She stumbles through the tears
That made her blind
She felt such pain
Some spoke in anger
Heard folks whisper
There's no place here for her kind
Still on she came
Through the shame that flushed her face
Until at last she knelt before His feet
And though she spoke no words
Ev'rything she said was heard
And she poured her love for the Master
From her box of alabaster

 

I've come to pour
My praise on Him like oil
From Mary's alabaster box
Don't be angry
If I wash His feet with my tears
And I dry them with my hair
You weren't there the night He found me
You did not feel what I felt
When He wrapped His love all around me
And you don't know the cost of the oil
In my alabaster box

 

I can't forget
The way life used to be
I was a pris'ner
To the sin that had me bound
I spent my days
Poured my life without measure
Into a little treasure box
I thought I found
Until the day when Jesus came to me
And healed my soul
With the wonder of His touch
So now I'm giving back to Him
All the praise He's worthy of
I've been forgiven and that's why
I love Him so much

I've come to pour
My praise on Him like oil
From Mary's alabaster box
Don't be angry
If I wash His feet with my tears
And dry them with my hair
You weren't there when my Jesus found me
You did not feel what I felt
When He wrapped His loving arms around me
And you don't know the cost of the oil
Oh you don't know the cost of my praise
You don't know the cost of the oil
In my alabaster box

 

Janice Lyn Sjostrand
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Wednesday, May 18, 2022

Know Thyself!

 


Most of us profess that we want to be with people who are ‘just who they are,’ who are real but, at the same time we are tempted to create an image.  We can look good on in our social media, posting images that catch us in our best moments. It’s a sad line that has been repeated a million times  - ‘May your life be as awesome as you pretend it is on Facebook.  Ooh, that stings.  How refreshing to be with someone who has learned to be himself, who knows who he is, his strengths and gifts.  A person who is self-aware may not be perfect, but she is relatable and warm, capable of genuine empathy, able to correct course readily.

A ‘wannabe’ is "a person who copies the behavior, customs, or dress of an admired person or group." Sometimes they're funny, sometimes pathetic, and sometimes down- right annoying. Just about anyone can pull off playing a role for a time but the a lack of authenticity becomes obvious when real skill is demanded. The wannabe, because he hasn't put in the time learning the skills, getting the education, and developing the art, is unable to come through in the crunch. 

The real tragedy in a ‘wannabe’s’ life is the emptiness. The lack of substance and/or accomplishment makes his life a lie. The wannabe never finds out who he really is or what he is really capable of doing. Focused on trying to be somebody else, he misses the joy of being who God created him to be, joyfully filling the place in this world that God, through spiritual gifts, experiences, and opportunities, creates just for him.

The Bible says - "Don't copy the behavior and customs of this world, but let God transform you into a new person by changing the way you think. Then you will know what God wants you to do, and you will know how good and pleasing and perfect his will really is. As God's messenger, I give each of you this warning: Be honest in your estimate of yourselves, measuring your value by how much faith God has given you." (Romans 12:2-3, NLT)   

A basic fact is this – each of us is a unique creation. We do not all shine with the same  brightness but we are equally valuable! God loves YOU.  He won't love you more if you learn to imitate some great saint or if you learn to play the role of your favorite Christian hero. Choosing to merely ‘act like a Christian’ is a sure way to short-circuit the realty of the life of the Holy Spirit in you.

Self-acceptance can be difficult. Looking in the mirror- physically and spiritually - reveals parts of ourselves that are not always pretty. Growth in the Spirit and true joy in our place in this world are impossible for those who simply refuse to face the facts. As that passage I quoted a moment ago teaches, God doesn't do 'make-overs.' He does transformations.  In His care and by His power each one of us can aspire to become an authentic saint. This transformational process is called sanctification. That just a big word for 'becoming like Christ' through the school of the Spirit! There will be blunders along the way, but - if we are committed to Him and to being authentic- we can be sure that His promise - "if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new." (2 Corinthians 5:17, NKJV)- will be true.

The many stories of people used by God that are told in the Bible reveal a common theme- He uses cracked pots, broken people, making them whole, gifting them to do His will in the world.
David was a murdering adulterer who gave us the hymnal of worship. 
Peter was a waffling coward who became the leader of the Church.
Paul was a religious zealot, full of self-righteousness, who became the messenger of God’s grace freely given us in Christ.   

What can He do with you, my friend?  In a phrase - "immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to His power that is at work within us." (Ephesians 3:20, NIV)   It starts with humbly turning to Him, receiving the life you have, not the one you think you deserve, and living as a genuine follower of Christ Jesus.

The word from the Word - "For God, who said, “Let light shine out of darkness,” made his light shine in our hearts to give us the light of the knowledge of the glory of God in the face of Christ. But we have this treasure in jars of clay to show that this all-surpassing power is from God and not from us." (2 Corinthians 4:6-7, NIV)

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Yet Not I But Through Christ In Me


What gift of grace is Jesus my redeemer
There is no more for heaven now to give
He is my joy my righteousness and freedom
My steadfast love my deep and boundless peace

To this I hold my hope is only Jesus
For my life is wholly bound to his
Oh how strange and divine I can sing all is mine
Yet not I but through Christ in me

The night is dark but I am not forsaken
For by my side the Saviour he will stay
I labour on in weakness and rejoicing
For in my need his power is displayed

To this I hold my Shepherd will defend me
Through the deepest valley he will lead
Oh the night has been won and I shall overcome
Yet not I but through Christ in me

No fate I dread I know I am forgiven
The future sure the price it has been paid
For Jesus bled and suffered for my pardon
And he was raised to overthrow the grave

To this I hold my sin has been defeated
Jesus now and ever is my plea
Oh the chains are released I can sing I am free
Yet not I but through Christ in me

With every breath I long to follow Jesus
For he has said that he will bring me home
And day by day I know he will renew me
Until I stand with joy before the throne

To this I hold my hope is only Jesus
All the glory evermore to him
When the race is complete still my lips shall repeat
Yet not I but through Christ in me

When the race is complete still my lips shall repeat
Yet not I but through Christ in me
Yet not I but through Christ in me

 

Jonny Robinson | Michael Farren | Rich Thompson

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Monday, May 16, 2022

Make it a Happy Day

 


I can point you to a short-cut to misery – start comparing your life to others!  In a matter of moments the sunshine will dim, your clothes will turn into rags, your car will be too old … any blessing you may enjoy will be forgotten. Envy is part of human psychology and reaches across all lines – the rich, the poor, men, women, young, old.  Mostly people envy those near to them, the one with just a little more. 

We think envy is about the advantages that we see in others but the truth is that envy is more about what’s inside of each one of us. It grows out of frustration, low self-esteem, or our own sense of personal lack. Left unchallenged not only does envy destroy our contentment, it will ruin friendships, rob us of sleep, and even bring on depression!

Yes, Christian, because it is more than psychological we need to label as God does; as sinful, and deal with it in His way. Proverbs says that "A heart at peace gives life to the body, but envy rots the bones." (Proverbs 14:30 NIV)  When we learn to be content, to appreciate who we are, where we are, and those with whom we live, we discover a richness of life that is unparalleled, but when we begin to believe that happiness will only be found IF we have what our friends enjoy, a spiritual cancer grows in us. The Decalogue includes a prohibition of envy. God said “You shall not covet (envy so much that you want it for yourself) your neighbor’s house. You shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, or his manservant or maidservant, his ox or donkey, or anything that belongs to your neighbor.” (Exodus 20:17, NIV)

Because envy is both so common among us, we tend to let it be or not to deal with it for the corrosive sin that it is. “Come on, Jerry, who hasn’t wished for something that his brother or friend owns?”  True. And yet, just because we can hide it, just because so many experience it, we cannot dismiss the corrosive and sinful result of living with envy. It is not harmless, nor does it just remain a private matter. James was inspired to tell us that "where you have envy and selfish ambition, there you find disorder and every evil practice." (James 3:16, NIV)

It is always a lot more simple to point out a problem than it is to offer a solution, but for envy there is a sure cure! And, when defeated, there is a wonderful result – contented joy. So what can we do?

We choose, by faith, to accept this day,
our life, with thankfulness,
gratitude that is bolstered by humility.

You may object, “Jerry, you have no idea the hardship of life.”  I do not, nor do you know mine. I am not suggesting that you paste on a smile and try to feel better about who you are, where you are, or what you have. Instead, turn your attention to God. Thank Him for Who He is. Need words? Borrow a Psalm, reading it prayerfully. (try Psalm 8 or 9!)  Or make note of that person who cares, that bird that sings, the flower that grows, the sun that shines.  Thank God that He loves you and that Christ Jesus is Lord of your life.  The seductive song of envy is no match for the sweet melodies of praise. Try it. Offer little prayers of praise to God throughout the day, not after envious feelings take hold, but before. 

Train yourself to be thankful to others, even for the little thing. Do it with sincerity. Choose to be generous. Generosity with words, with our stuff, with forgiveness and understanding, opens us to God’s resources. 

Contentment, the opposite of envy, is learned. It is part of the life of the Spirit in us. As we cultivate a daily walk with God, humbly living for His approval alone, envy will lose its grasp of our heart as we overflow with thankfulness.

Make Paul’s words your aspiration, praying for the Spirit’s transformative work to be done deep i your mind and heart. Here's a word from the Word. If you commit it to memory you be able to remember it next time the voice of envy whispers in your ear.  He said, “I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. I can do everything through him who gives me strength.”  (Philippians 4:11-13)

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God Is Good

Third grade
I drew my dreams on a blank page
My own silver screen
Painted sun, never rain
And love without pain

It's funny
That life I designed never played out
Like I had in mind
Had some highs hit the ground
Some ups that went down
But one thing that I figured out

Joy comes, tears fall
I'm learning there is beauty in it all
It's not hard to find it, you just have to look
Oh, God is good

I've said
Hellos and goodbyes and I've held my
Friends while they've cried
Tasted bitter and sweet
Those moments between
Oh, He's had his hand on everything

Joy comes, tears fall
I'm learning there is beauty in it all
It's not hard to find it, you just have to look
Oh, God is good

We're all young, then we're old
Kids have kids of their own
And the days just keep moving, moving
If there's one thing I know
True wherever I go
He is with me forever, through it all

Joy comes, tears fall
I'm learning there is beauty in it all
Joy comes, tears fall
But I'm learning there is beauty in it all
It's not hard to find it, you just have to look

Oh, God is good
Oh, God is good

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