The Wisdom of Waiting
So, how well do you deal with waiting? Yesterday, my flight
to Newark was delayed for about 15 minutes because of two elderly persons, obviously
not well, who needed a lot of help boarding the plane. I was generally surprised at the level of
anger among the crowd of waiting travelers. It rose steadily each passing
moment. When we finally boarded, the captain urged people to quickly stow their
carry-on luggage so that we could get underway.
Impatient irritation showed through in his tone. But I cannot throw any
stones at those impatient people, for I too often have also been impatient.
When I sense that impatience in myself, I work at defusing any anger. Anger only adds to the unpleasantness of
waiting. I only wish I had learned that lesson much earlier in life.
The Scripture counsels patience, not just with the
irritants, but with the Lord and life. "Be patient, then, brothers, until the Lord’s coming. See how the farmer
waits for the land to yield its valuable crop and how patient he is for the
autumn and spring rains. You too, be patient and stand firm, because the Lord’s
coming is near." (James 5:7-8, NIV) This passage speaks to us in the
imperative; it is not a suggestion. It is God’s command! Those Scriptures tell
us that only time will bring about the results we desire.
·
Those teens that drive us to distraction will
eventually mature, but it will take time.
·
A marriage characterized by powerful love and
deep intimacy only emerges with years of patience.
·
Proficiency in some skill we are learning
demands time and practice. Nobody becomes a concert pianist overnight!
I was amused by a recent promotion on a Christian radio
station. A book titled something like “30
Days to Becoming the Christian You Want to Be” promised to make the reader a
fully equipped Christian in one month if they would read for ‘just 15 minutes
each day.’ Impossible! The likeness of Jesus Christ
is produced in us over years – through study of the Bible, worship, prayer, and
walking with the Spirit through life.
The most difficult waiting is for justice. When we are
wronged, when others misuse or abuse us, when we do right and things go wrong;
we want to set it right now, don’t
we? Sometimes the pain seems too much to
bear, the frustration makes us miserable.
God counsels patience. "Be
still before the LORD and wait patiently for him; do not fret when men succeed
in their ways, when they carry out their wicked schemes. Refrain from anger and
turn from wrath; do not fret—it leads only to evil." (Psalm 37:7-8,
NIV) Don’t confuse ‘being still’ with
being passive! Jesus taught us to "always pray and not give up." (Luke
18:1, NIV) Our choice in times of
waiting is not surrender to circumstances. Instead, we submit to God! We carry our plea to Him. We receive the
gracious gift of faith from Him, and we learn to wait on Him. The supernatural result is something that
defies logic. The word from the Word I
leave with you today describes it. May
this be ours in abundance as we learn the wisdom of waiting.
"Do not be
anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with
thanksgiving, present your requests to God. And the peace of God, which
transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ
Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7, NIV) Supernatural peace! It is possible even in
life’s seasons of waiting. Praise Him.
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It Is Well With My Soul
When peace like a
river
Attendeth my way
When sorrows
Like sea billows roll
Whatever my lot
Thou hast taught me to
say
It is well
It is well with my
soul
Tho' Satan should
buffet
Tho' trials should
come
Let this blest
assurance control
That Christ has
regarded
My helpless estate
And hath shed His own
blood
For my soul
It is well with my soul
It is well
It is well with my soul
Horatio G. Spafford | Philip Paul Bliss
Public Domain