Wednesday, March 08, 2017

Hey, let me help you!




When someone does the unexpected for you it feels good, right?  When Bev illness was critical and my energy reserves were near zero, I often came home to find our laundry done and left neatly folded, ready to be put away.  A small thing? Perhaps but in that context, it was a huge gift! When it snows, I drive across the road to my neighbor’s home and use my plow to clear his drive. He’s grateful for that gesture of kindness that costs me so little. In the ‘hurry up’ world in which I live, I try to remember to speak a kind word to the person waiting on me.  Too many times to remember, when some person is tired or stressed, I ask, “Been a long day?” Most of the time they respond to that little kindness with a smile. Why? Because I ‘served’ them by caring. Then, too, there are those days when I am pressed or absorbed in my responsibilities and I forget to care or become impatient. It hurts me when I note that I have diminished another’s worth by being selfish!

You probably have stories of kindness as well as lack of compassion, too.
Perhaps some of you have known something worse than that, having been treated with contempt or cruelty.
How do we respond to every situation?  Read on.

In this season of Lent, when we remind ourselves of the disciplines of the Christian life, let us not forget that discipline of SERVICE. In worthy book, The Celebration of Discipline, a practical description of our Christian life, Richard Foster includes these powerful lines. “Nothing disciplines the inordinate desires of the flesh like service, and nothing transforms the desires of the flesh like serving in hiddenness. The flesh whines against service but screams against hidden service. It strains and pulls for honor and recognition. It will devise subtle, religiously acceptable means to call attention to the service rendered. If we stoutly refuse to give in to this lust of the flesh, we crucify it. Every time we crucify the flesh, we crucify our pride and arrogance.”  Before you go on, would you go back and read those words again.

Americans in 2017 are noisy about their ‘rights.’  So many are desperately concerned that someone will steal their dignity.  This attitude of ‘serve me’ has crept into the Church.  In all of our clamor for recognition and even for ‘fairness’ we seem to have forgotten the command of our Savior and Lord to forget ourselves, to give ourselves away as we say, “Hey, let me help you.”  Jesus said, "But among you it will be different. Those who are the greatest among you should take the lowest rank, and the leader should be like a servant. Who is more important, the one who sits at the table or the one who serves? The one who sits at the table, of course. But not here! For I am among you as one who serves." (Luke 22:26-28, NLT)

Perhaps those words about service seem only like drudgery, duty?
Do they read as soul-killing Law to you? 

Truthfully, service without love turns into servitude. However, when we love others because we are loved, we find life and joy in doing laundry, listening to another’s sorrow, caring for the sick, teaching a class of rowdy kids, cleaning a bathroom, or doing our job with excellence even when the supervisor seems blind to our efforts.  Christian, ultimately we are serving Jesus.  Remember His words, “whatever you do for the least, you do it for Me!”  Put the face of Jesus on your kids who forget to thank you, on that spouse who is careless about appreciation, on that person in your extended family who asks much and gives nothing.

Here is a word from the Word.  Jesus told a story of a man who hired people throughout the day. Some worked the full day, some just an hour, but all received the same pay!  When there was a protest, the employer answered it like this.  Hear the truth found in these words. Our focus for ourselves is not ‘fairness’ but ‘faithfulness.’  "He replied to the one speaking for the rest, ‘Friend, I haven’t been unfair. We agreed on the wage of a dollar, didn’t we? So take it and go. I decided to give to the one who came last the same as you. Can’t I do what I want with my own money? Are you going to get stingy because I am generous?’

“Here it is again, the Great Reversal: many of the first ending up last, and the last first.” (Matthew 20:13-16, The Message)

Lord, help us to delight in serving, knowing that You never forget what is done in Your Name. Amen.
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A Charge To Keep I Have

A charge to keep I have
A God to glorify
A never dying soul to save
And fit it for the sky

To serve the present age
My calling to fulfill
O may it all my powr's engage
To do my Master's will

Arm me with jealous care
As in Thy sight to live
And O Thy servant Lord prepare
A strict account to give

Charles Wesley
© Words: Public Domain

Tuesday, March 07, 2017

What are you wearing?





Her closet was the last place in the house that was largely as Bev left it 14 months ago.  For months I avoided giving her clothing away. Seeing those jackets, dresses, skirts, and sweaters hanging there was comforting in a way but now, it was time to pack it all up. Yesterday, while I took things off of hangars, I held the ‘favorites’ and memories danced through my mind.  “She wore this to wedding. This one was a Sunday favorite. I bought that for  her when we visited that place.”  Bev was careful about her appearance, dressing modestly but attractively, always lovely in my eyes.  But, her greater beauty did not come from those ‘rags’ she put on. She was given a robe of righteousness by her Savior, a thing of true and lasting adorning.

What are you wearing, Christian? Are you as concerned with the way your soul is dressed as you are about the style and fit of those shirts or skirts that you drape around the body?  Like my lovely late wife, someday you will leave the clothes hanging in your closet. No matter where you bought them, how well they fit, or the label stitched into them – they are for the moment. But, if you ‘put on Christ’ He dresses you in a robe that you will wear into His Presence!  The prophet wrote - "I delight greatly in the Lord; my soul rejoices in my God. For he has clothed me with garments of salvation and arrayed me in a robe of righteousness, as a bridegroom adorns his head like a priest, and as a bride adorns herself with her jewels." (Isaiah 61:10, NIV)

I loved buying clothing for Bev! Often when we traveled we would find our way to a dress shop and I would watch her sort through the racks, offering my opinion about what ‘looked good’ on her. My taste always tended toward things brighter and more costly since she was both modest and frugal. I would coax her to trust my eyes.  In that way I ‘dressed’ her and she liked it in spite of her protests about an outfit being too expensive or too ‘loud.’  Those memories are sweet as they were moments of great fun.

Do you know that Jesus has purchased a suit of holiness for us at His expense, right standing with God and radiance of spirit we could never provide for ourselves?  It is ours for the asking!  Have you put on Christ? Paul urges us "with regard to your former way of life, to put off your old self, which is being corrupted by its deceitful desires; to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness." (Ephesians 4:22-24, NIV)

Are you hanging onto old clothing of the soul;  hatred, refusing to forgive, valuing the superficial, caring for Self assiduously?  Those rags may be comfortable, but they are not beautiful.  So, throw them away and accept that beautiful outfit bought by Christ and presented with grace!  You won’t be leaving that behind in a closet to be worn by another.  That holy robe will be your adorning in the Presence of the King, to His delight.

Dress us in beauty, Father.
Help us to discard our self-righteousness,
To let You make us resplendent with holiness,
Radiant with the Spirit.

In Jesus’ Name, Amen.

Monday, March 06, 2017

Outgrowing God?





I love my children and they love me but oh so differently than they once did.  Though they are independent adults who enjoy rich and productive lives, in spite of the fact that we live a thousand miles apart, we are family. I love them, they love me.  They did not ‘outgrow’ their Dad, they love me in a way that is richer and deeper than they did 3 decades ago. The illustration is imperfect yet workable as I think about knowing God.

How do you love God?
Like a toddler, dependent, in need of constant monitoring? 
Like a teenager, pushing the boundaries of the relationship, testing the limits of love sometimes? 
Maturely, honoring, respecting, walking with Him productively as you come to know His Mind and Heart in deeper ways? 

Peter urges us to grow in grace. "Like newborn babies, crave pure spiritual milk, so that by it you may grow up in your salvation, now that you have tasted that the Lord is good." (1 Peter 2:2-3, NIV)  Spiritual maturity, just like the natural kind, is not without choice and struggle.  Yes, we all grow older, but we do not necessarily mature, do we?  Some people remain childish, refusing responsibility, waiting to be rescued, making messes despite being 40 years old!  Others learn, develop, and grow into loving, whole people that make the world around them a much more lovely place.

One of the marks of maturity is seeing things as they are and dealing with them.  Those who are childish allow themselves to live in fairy tales and excuses. Because they confuse fact and fantasy, their lives are tangled messes of poor decisions, debt, and/or failed relationships. Christians who refuse to grow often become bitter towards God expecting Him to indulge them, make allowances for their continuing sins, and to take away the consequences of their choices.  What He desires is to train us to walk alongside of Him, to gain His wisdom, and partner with Him to defeat evil, roll back suffering, and to make His Kingdom known.  That is beyond the capabilities of infants, isn’t it?

What beauty comes from the life of the Christian who loves God steadily, completely. They enjoy His love in good times and bad. They do the work of the Kingdom when there is applause and when they are hidden in obscure places. How do we reach that kind of maturity? The Word says we are trained by discipline!  "As you endure this divine discipline, remember that God is treating you as his own children. Who ever heard of a child who is never disciplined by its father? If God doesn’t discipline you as he does all of his children, it means that you are illegitimate and are not really his children at all. Since we respected our earthly fathers who disciplined us, shouldn’t we submit even more to the discipline of the Father of our spirits, and live forever? For our earthly fathers disciplined us for a few years, doing the best they knew how. But God’s discipline is always good for us, so that we might share in his holiness. No discipline is enjoyable while it is happening—it’s painful! But afterward there will be a peaceful harvest of right living for those who are trained in this way." (Hebrews 12:7-11, NLT)  Do not confuse ‘discipline’ with ‘punishment.’  Too many do!

Discipline is training that takes us through some hard places where we find out who we are and who He is.  There we learn to take the resources He provides and make them multiply with our daily choices.

Here is a word from the Word. It is a prayer of the mature.  As you read it, I hope you will make it your aspiration. “Two things I ask of you, O Lord; do not refuse me before I die: Keep falsehood and lies far from me; give me neither poverty nor riches, but give me only my daily bread. Otherwise, I may have too much and disown you and say, ‘Who is the Lord?’ Or I may become poor and steal, and so dishonor the name of my God." (Proverbs 30:7-9, NIV)

Let’s start our week right, loving Him wholly, so as to become beautifully holy.  Have a great day!
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Good, Good Father

I've heard a thousand stories
Of what they think You’re like
But I've heard the tender whisper
Of love in the dead of night
You tell me that You’re pleased
And that I'm never alone

You're a Good, Good Father
It's who You are
It's who You are
It's who You are
And I'm loved by You
It's who I am
It's who I am
It's who I am

I've seen many searching for answers
Far and wide
But I know we're all searching for answers
Only You provide
Because You know just what we need
Before we say a word

You are perfect in all of Your ways
You are perfect in all of Your ways
You are perfect in all of Your ways to us

Love so undeniable I can hardly speak
Peace so unexplainable I can hardly think
As You call me deeper still
As You call me deeper still
As You call me deeper still
Into love love love

Anthony Brown | Pat Barrett
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