Monday, February 23, 2009
What's it all mean, if anything?
Men wise in the ways of the world, accomplished in letters, find grappling with life’s purpose, difficult, too. Bertrand Russell, atheist philosopher from the 20th century, describes human significance, or more accurately, human insignificance, this way: “In the visible world, the Milky Way is a tiny fragment. Within this tiny fragment the solar system is an infinitesimal speck, and within the speck our planet Earth is a microscopic dot. On this dot, tiny lumps of carbon and water crawl about for a few years until they are dissolved back into the elements from which they are compounded.” (as quoted by John Ortberg, Faith and Doubt, Zondervan, 2008) Wow, doesn’t that make you want to jump with joy?
Even David, the poet king of ancient Israel, observed the vastness of the sky and wondered, “What is man?” But, he did not stop with despair or at the natural conclusion of the futility of life. Instead, he looked beyond the natural world and, in faith, connected the naturally inconsequential man with the One who created him and sang this song. "When I consider your heavens, the work of your fingers, the moon and the stars, which you have set in place,
what is man that you are mindful of him, the son of man that you care for him? You made him a little lower than the heavenly beings and crowned him with glory and honor. You made him ruler over the works of your hands; you put everything under his feet: all flocks and herds, and the beasts of the field, the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea, all that swim the paths of the seas. O Lord, our Lord, how majestic is your name in all the earth!" (Psalm 8:3-10, NIV)
Life’s ultimate meaning is not gained by our achievements! Meaning is a gift granted by the Creator who ‘crowns us with glory!’ Anything that you or I may do in this world – be it invention, artistic work, or accumulation of goods – cannot provide meaning beyond the moment. Eventually, likely even before we die, someone will do what we do better, faster, or with greater skill! The things we acquire through diligence will, in the words of Jesus, eventually be eaten by moths or rust or perhaps stolen away! But that which we do for God, those choices that flow out of obedience to His general and specific will for our individual lives, are eternal, surviving even when our body is laid in the ground!
“Prove that, Jerry! How do you know that what you’ve just written is true?” I cannot prove it. It is a choice of faith. Mine is not an irrational faith, nor is it a fantasy. I choose faith in a loving God because there is sufficient evidence for His existence written into the world in which I walk. From time to time, I sense His Presence, glimpse the outlines of Someone greater than time and space into which I am locked for the moment. Therefore, I serve Him. The life He gives to me as I exercise faith and practice obedience is meaningful. Ultimately, I ask myself, “So if you have chosen wrongly, what have you lost? Nothing! If those who reject faith and live only for themselves have chosen wrongly what have they gained? Nothing!
"Now our knowledge is partial and incomplete, and even the gift of prophecy reveals only part of the whole picture! But when full understanding comes, these partial things will become useless. When I was a child, I spoke and thought and reasoned as a child. But when I grew up, I put away childish things. Now we see things imperfectly as in a cloudy mirror, but then we will see everything with perfect clarity.
All that I know now is partial and incomplete, but then I will know everything completely, just as God now knows me completely. Three things will last forever—faith, hope, and love—and the greatest of these is love." (1 Corinthians 13:9-13, NLT)
Friday, February 20, 2009
Shot through the heart
Most of my life I have managed my emotions, experiencing them, but not allowing them to rule me. Now my heart full of turbulence. Sorrow refuses to be contained and intrudes on my life at unexpected moments. My grief shows up in other strange ways, too. Earlier in the week, I realized I was trying to ‘fix’ everything around me, straightening up my desk, cleaning up messes, obsessing over details at work, etc. It was clear that I was trying to set things right. Anger flashes out of me at inappropriate moments, too. Hopefully, I won’t do too much damage to others before this thunderstorm in my heart subsides.
Interaction with people, normally not hard for me, is very difficult right now, too. I can feel their uncertainty. Do they acknowledge the obvious and attempt an expression of comfort, “Sorry for your loss,” which reminds me of my pain or do they try for normal, “Hi, how ya doing? Nice day, isn’t it?” and risk appearing insensitive? I feel badly for them because I’m not sure which is best at any given moment, either. The most intuitive person I’ve met was a young teenage boy who saw me coming and hugged me as he said, “Life sucks for you right now, doesn’t it?” What a kid! (Forgive his slang. For the young that word doesn’t have the connotations it carries for those of us over 45. Sucks is just a synonym for bad!)
Most adults try hard to empathize and only end up making me say things I don’t want to say yet again. “Well, his suffering is over.” True enough, but I would still like him with us! “He’s home in Heaven now.” Yes, I believe that, too, but it doesn’t do a whole lot for my sense of loss! Truthfully, explanations are unnecessary. Empathy is enough.
There are two things that are clearer to me since Dad died.
First is that life is really short! We need not be morbid about our mortality, but we are fools to attempt to ignore it. Solomon’s wisdom is compelling. "Don’t let the excitement of youth cause you to forget your Creator. Honor him in your youth before you grow old and say, “Life is not pleasant anymore.” … Yes, remember your Creator now while you are young, before the silver cord of life snaps and the golden bowl is broken. Don’t wait until the water jar is smashed at the spring and the pulley is broken at the well. For then the dust will return to the earth, and the spirit will return to God who gave it." … "That’s the whole story. Here now is my final conclusion: Fear God and obey his commands, for this is everyone’s duty. God will judge us for everything we do, including every secret thing, whether good or bad." (Ecclesiastes 12:1, 6-7, 13-14, NLT)
Second is that friends matter! Being with people, even though interactions are sometimes strained, lets me experience love. That teenage kid loved me in his unique kid way and it was healing. Life goes on and seeing others functioning, hearing them laugh, listening to the superficial chatter of daily life, carries me forward, too. Again Solomon wisdom is good. "Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their work: If one falls down, his friend can help him up. But pity the man who falls and has no one to help him up!" (Ecclesiastes 4:9-10, NIV)
Jesus Christ taught us that life boils down to two things:
“Love God wholeheartedly; and love others like you love yourself.” How true! If our life course is set by those two boundaries, the big stuff will work out.
Again, I want to thank you for letting me walk my journey with you! Last week, many of you wrote to tell me that sharing my thoughts about this was no burden, so I did it again today. God bless you, friends.
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As I journey thro’ the land, singing as I go,
Pointing souls to Calvary—to the crimson flow,
Many arrows pierce my soul from without, within;
But my Lord leads me on, thro’ Him I must win.
When in service for my Lord dark may be the night,
But I’ll cling more close to Him, He will give me light;
Satan’s snares may vex my soul, turn my tho’ts aside;
But my Lord goes ahead, leads whate’er betide.
When in valleys low I look tow’rd the mountain height,
And behold my Savior there, leading in the fight,
With a tender hand outstretched tow’rd the valley low,
Guiding me, I can see, as I onward go.
Oh, I want to see Him, look upon His face,
There to sing forever of His saving grace;
On the streets of glory let me lift my voice,
Cares all past, home at last, ever to rejoice.
Rufus Cornelius
Public Domain
Thursday, February 19, 2009
Dollar's Fall Gives Rise to Anti-christ's Mark?
The world is a community like never before. Europe has become a defacto state with the various nations sharing a common currency, a common constitution, and a common justice system. A hiccup in Asia reverberates in London! A terrorist sheik holed up in a cave in remote mountains in Pakistan has held the United States in mesmerized fear now for nearly ten years! We are inter-connected in ways that even futurists of the 1960's could not foresee. Without being overly dramatic, I can more readily conceive a not-so-distant day when the nations of this world would readily accept the authority of a world leader if he could promise to restore economic stability, settle ancient disputes, and produce an era of prosperity.
Revelation speaks of that day. John writes, "Then I saw a beast (Anti-Christ) rising up out of the sea. (a Biblical metaphor for the nations) It had seven heads and ten horns, with ten crowns on its horns. And written on each head were names that blasphemed God. ... The whole world worshiped the dragon (The Devil) for giving the beast such power, and they also worshiped the beast. "Who is as great as the beast?" they exclaimed. "Who is able to fight against him?" Then the beast was allowed to speak great blasphemies against God. And he was given authority to do whatever he wanted for forty-two months. ... And the beast was allowed to wage war against God's holy people and to conquer them. And he was given authority to rule over every tribe and people and language and nation. ... This means that God's holy people must endure persecution patiently and remain faithful. ...
He required everyone-small and great, rich and poor, free and slave-to be given a mark on the right hand or on the forehead. And no one could buy or sell anything without that mark, which was either the name of the beast or the number representing his name. Wisdom is needed here. Let the one with understanding solve the meaning of the number of the beast, for it is the number of a man. His number is 666." (Revelation 13, NLT)
"Jerry, you're freaking me out!"
Disciple, do not fear. God is greater than world systems, greater than persecution, greater than anything Evil can bring against us. I've read the end of the book, too. The promises are wonderful, all encompassing, and sure.
"Then I saw heaven opened, and a white horse was standing there. Its rider was named Faithful and True, for he judges fairly and wages a righteous war. His eyes were like flames of fire, and on his head were many crowns." (Revelation 19:11-12, NLT) Jesus Christ is not defeated. He will come to reign and His power will prevail.
"Then I saw the beast and the kings of the world and their armies gathered together to fight against the one sitting on the horse and his army. And the beast was captured, and with him the false prophet who did mighty miracles on behalf of the beast-miracles that deceived all who had accepted the mark of the beast and who worshiped his statue. Both the beast and his false prophet were thrown alive into the fiery lake of burning sulfur." (Revelation 19:19-20, NLT)
Here's a word from the Word. Let it's wonder saturate your mind and heart so you will be bold in the work of God. Ponder it prayerfully today.
"On the earth, nations will be in anguish and perplexity at the roaring and tossing of the sea. (Remember that Biblical metaphor for the nations?) Men will faint from terror, apprehensive of what is coming on the world, for the heavenly bodies will be shaken. At that time they will see the Son of Man coming in a cloud with power and great glory. When these things begin to take place, stand up and lift up your heads, because your redemption is drawing near."
(Luke 21:25-28, NIV)
I am glad I am a child of the King. Aren't you glad you know Him, too?
Wednesday, February 18, 2009
More than an expert!
Disciple, are you a good healer, a compassionate Christian who demonstrates the love of Jesus, or are you just ‘an expert’ in soul matters? We may do our job as witnesses to the Truth and still miss the mission of bringing the Kingdom of God to others! There is an old phrase that bears repeating that says, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
As we interact with those around us who are fearful of the future, who are trying to cope with illness, who have a broken heart, who are wrestling with destructive habits; it is not enough to dispense a Bible verse or a quick prayer. Advice that is on the mark and Biblically based won’t help others all that much if it is not flowing from a compassionate heart. People need more than an expert. They need a friend who really cares.
Jesus told a story about a man who became the victim of muggers, who left him near death on the road. Two men, experts in religion, saw the man but had no time to assist him. Did they pray for him? Perhaps, but they did not touch him. The Samaritan who came along got down and lifted the man up, took him to a place to recover, and paid the bill! He ended His story with this challenge: "So which of these three do you think was neighbor to him who fell among the thieves?” And he said, “He who showed mercy on him.” Then Jesus said to him, “Go and do likewise.” (Luke 10:36-37, NKJV) Among the many lessons from this story I take away this: there is no such thing as touchless healing! We have to be willing to get involved, to be dragged into the messy lives of others, and to walk alongside of those we want to help.
Do you want to see your extended family come to know Christ?
Get involved with their lives. Go to their gatherings. Be part of their celebrations and sorrows.
Are you concerned about the spiritual welfare of the people who live on your street or who work with you?
Forget being the ‘spiritual expert.’ Become human. Let yourself feel what they feel, and share life with them.
Here’s a word from the Word. "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another." (1 John 4:7-11, NIV)
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Touch through me, Holy Spirit, Touch through me.
Let my hands reach out to others
Touch through me.
There's a lonely soul somewhere
Needing just one friend to care.
Touch through me, Holy Spirit, Touch through me.
Flow through me, Holy Spirit, Flow through me.
Like a river in the desert,
Flow through me.
Springing fountain, healing stream,
Living water, pure and clean,
Flow through me, Holy Spirit, Flow through me.
My hands will be Your hands
Reaching out to others.
My lips will not be slothful, Lord, to speak.
I will be that good Samaritan
To someone else in need.
I will be Your house to dwell in live through me.
Touch Through Me
Rambo, Dottie © 1981 John T. Benson Publishing Company (Admin. by Brentwood-Benson Music Publishing, Inc., 741 Coolsprings Blvd., Franklin TN 37067)CCLI License No. 810055
Tuesday, February 17, 2009
An Impossible Quest?
As I write this, it is my sincere desire to be full of love towards all people today. Well experienced in real life, I know it is all but certain that I will fail in that quest, in some measure, before nightfall. I could react less than charitably, for example, when some driver of questionable skill makes me slam on my brakes to avoid a collision, or when someone takes up my time when I am trying to complete a task on a deadline; or when fatigue makes me more vulnerable to acting from emotional impulse. Similarly, it is my intent not to judge others, but I may lapse into cynical criticism of someone before the day is over. I truly want to make all choices in a way that puts God and His purposes in first place, but will I today? Literally, only God knows!
So, why engage in a quest so fraught with possibilities of failure? Why not lower my sights and be content with a lesser discipleship? Because I am commissioned and called to be holy. The Word tells me "just as he who called you is holy, so be holy in all you do; for it is written: "Be holy, because I am holy." (1 Peter 1:15-16, NIV) It is not a suggestion! It is a demand made by God, who sets an impossible standard for my holiness - that of His own righteousness.
"Jerry," you may be thinking, "this is foolishness. No one can live under such pressure." I would tell you that you are mistaken on two counts - the first being assuming that aspiring to a holy life creates pressure, and secondarily that it is foolishness to want to obey the Lord's call! The paradox is that if I begin to believe that I can be loving, obedient to God, or a disciple through rational choice alone I will create pressure on myself that is unbearable. But, if I take up the call of the Way of the Cross with faith in His promise and Presence, I will find Jesus' comfort and a soul rest that is not obtainable in any other way. He says, "Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light." (Matthew 11:29-30, NIV)
Yoke is not a word generally associated with ease or comfort. A yoke was used for work, for bearing a load! When He calls us to be His disciples, the Lord is not inviting us to a life free of strain but He says if we come to Him and take HIS yoke, not one of our own making, the 'fit' will be right, not chafing. We will accomplish His work in ways that bring us soul-rest, a sense of significance and purpose. The work He asks of us may tire us, but it will not leave us feeling empty or hopeless. To be sure, days will come and go when we will only know obedience: without fulfillment, without knowing 'why' behind the 'what.'
Let me illustrate my point from my recent life experience. Over the six months, I spent many long nights spent tending to my father's needs as he lay dying. I did not always feel joyous about not being able to sleep, nor did I always think of getting him a drink of water at 3 am as something desirable - in the moment. But last week my perspective changed. He died! Now, I treasure the memories of such moments of simple service and wonder why I did not more gladly do even more for him given the cost that was, in retrospect, so small?
Very similarly, when God draws certain seasons to a close in our lives, we begin to see our obedience in a different light and we gain delight in what He has allowed us to do in cooperating with His plans and purposes in our world. If we take the yoke of Jesus Christ and live in obedience, our joy will be perfectly complete when we enter His Presence and see all our lives as He saw them all along! Disciple, He does not ask us to walk alone, nor does He ask us to deal with the people and situations that test our holiness all by ourselves.
Take this Psalm of promise with you into the battle today. It will make you strong and keep you on your feet, even when you're set back by some momentary lapse into sin or failure.
"A song for pilgrims ascending to Jerusalem. A psalm of David.
What if the Lord had not been on our side?
Let all Israel repeat:
What if the Lord had not been on our side when people attacked us?
They would have swallowed us alive in their burning anger.
The waters would have engulfed us; a torrent would have overwhelmed us.
Yes, the raging waters of their fury would have overwhelmed our very lives.
Praise the Lord, who did not let their teeth tear us apart!
We escaped like a bird from a hunter's trap.
The trap is broken, and we are free!
Our help is from the Lord, who made heaven and earth." (Psalm 124, NLT)
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And He walks with me,
And He talks with me,
And He tells me that I am His own.
And the joy we share, as we tarry there,
None other has ever known! - public domain
Friday, February 13, 2009
Walking among lions, kicking cobras
That life is not for me! I want to love with my whole heart, even when that means having it broken or disappointed time and again. I want to preach the best sermons I am capable of preaching, even if it means spending more time alone in preparation. I want to honor my God in my daily choices even though my sinful nature screams to be soothed by selfishness. I desire to meet the challenges of the world (godless power structures), the flesh (my sinful nature), and the Devil head-on, yielding no ground to any of them in pursuit of the will of God. My prayer is “Lord, first, make me more like You, and second; through me spread the influence and fragrance of Jesus everywhere!” When God calls me to His home, I want to arrive at Heaven’s door with hands dirtied by doing the work of Jesus Christ!
And this I know; such a life is impossible in my own strength. As much as I might admire those who appear self-sufficient and capable of meeting every adversary with their intellect or their fists, I know that the work of God can never be successfully done apart from the inner working of the Holy Spirit. Like the man who answered the impossible call to rebuild the destroyed city of Jerusalem I hear God saying, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: ‘Not by might nor by power, but by my Spirit,’ says the Lord Almighty." (Zechariah 4:6, NIV)
What about you, disciple? Are you hiding out from life? Don’t waste the days, chasing pleasure and avoiding sacrifice. Jesus reminds us that "If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but lose your own soul? Is anything worth more than your soul?"
(Matthew 16:25-26, NLT)
Here’s God’s promise for those who respond to His call. We never walk alone! It’s great! Read it with faith.
"Yes, because God’s your refuge, the High God your very own home, Evil can’t get close to you, harm can’t get through the door. He ordered his angels to guard you wherever you go.
If you stumble, they’ll catch you; their job is to keep you from falling. You’ll walk unharmed among lions and snakes, and kick young lions and serpents from the path.
“If you’ll hold on to me for dear life,” says God, “I’ll get you out of any trouble. I’ll give you the best of care if you’ll only get to know and trust me. Call me and I’ll answer, be at your side in bad times; I’ll rescue you, then throw you a party. I’ll give you a long life, give you a long drink of salvation!” - (Psalm 91:9-16, The Message)
Thursday, February 12, 2009
The Path to Greatness
As I watched the testimony of these men who are chauffeured about in their limousines, private jets, who live in luxury with amazing perks; the vast difference between worldly greatness and greatness in the Kingdom of Heaven was made clear to me. My Dad knew a kind of greatness that had nothing to do with any of the usual perks of power. He had little wealth! The suit he was buried in was threadbare and worn. He did not command a bevy of assistants who scurried to carry out his wishes. He drove an older car that was full of kid's stuff! Yet, at his death, thousands (literally) took notice that a man of kindness and love was no longer among us. One of my favorite tributes to him is this one: "Pastor Scott has been called home. It was a pleasure to have known him. He helped the police department when strangers passed this way and had no one to turn to. He answered our call at all hours of the day and night. He always welcomed my family and I at the Christmas pageants for many years even though we were not parishioners of his church. Rest in peace." - Doug Koeppen, Chief (retired) Washington Borough, NJ PD Dad did not concern himself about the status of those who called, only their need. And, then he responded with what he had- money, time, love, concern!
Dad was a servant and Jesus says that service is the path to greatness in His Kingdom! "So Jesus called them together and said, "You know that the rulers in this world lord it over their people, and officials flaunt their authority over those under them. But among you it will be different. Whoever wants to be a leader among you must be your servant, and whoever wants to be first among you must be the slave of everyone else. For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve others and to give his life as a ransom for many."
(Mark 10:42-45, NLT)
A true servant's heart comes from submission to God first! A person who has not surrendered his heart and mind to the Lordship of Jesus will not consistently forget himself in service to others. The will to power and the demands of ego must die at the foot of the Cross, put to death by the Spirit as we lay down our lives as a 'living sacrifice.' Only then will we even be able to consider giving ourselves away to others, especially those who are, in the estimation of this present world, on a lower plane!
Eugene Peterson writes: "The Christian is a person who recognizes that our real problem is not achieving freedom, but in learning service under a better Master. He also recognizes that every relationship that excludes God becomes oppressive... thus we see the urgency of living under the mastery of God." - Life At Its Best
Disciple, do you want to be great?
First, know what true greatness is! It is not being served, but serving. Today, kneel (literally for it is the posture of reverence) and ask God to take your life - wholly. Borrow the prayer of the Psalm that says, "I lift my eyes to you, O God, enthroned in heaven. We keep looking to the Lord our God for his mercy, just as servants keep their eyes on their master, as a slave girl watches her mistress for the slightest signal." (Psalm 123:1-2, NLT) And, having presented yourself to Him, receive the gift of His merciful love, His amazing grace, His wonderful care.
Then, go and give yourself to others. It is His path to greatness!
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Nobody stood and applauded them,
So they knew from the start
This road would not lead to fame.
All they really knew for sure
Was Jesus had called to them.
He said, "Come, follow me."
And they came, with reckless abandon, they came.
Drawn like rivers
Are drawn to the sea.
There's no turning back,
For the water cannot help but flow.
Once we hear the Savior's call,
We'll follow wherever He leads,
Because of the love He has shown.
Because He has called us to go,
We will answer.
We will abandon it all
For the sake of the call.
No other reason at all
But the sake of the call.
Wholly devoted to live and to die
For the sake of the call.
Not for the sake of a creed or a cause.
Not for a dream or a promise.
Simply because it is Jesus who calls,
And if we believe we'll obey.
For the Sake of the Call
Stephen Curtis Chapman © 1990 Sparrow Song (a div. of EMI Christian Music Publishing) / Careers-BMG Music Publishing, Inc. / Greg Nelson Music (Admin. by EMI Christian Music Publishing)CCLI License No. 810055
Wednesday, February 11, 2009
Return to dust, you mortals!
After a few moments of silence, I could only pray, "Lord, make my remaining years count. Find me faithful!" I think my grief took a turn in that moment as well. "No more yearning for Dad's touch or to hear his voice," I thought. "Remember his work, his love- and carry on." My Scripture meditation followed up on that today.
The 90th Psalm urges us to reflect on our mortality, not with dread, but to move ourselves to action! Take a look.
"Lord, through all the generations you have been our home! Before the mountains were born, before you gave birth to the earth and the world, from beginning to end, you are God. You turn people back to dust, saying,
"Return to dust, you mortals!"
For you, a thousand years are as a passing day, as brief as a few night hours.... Seventy years are given to us! Some even live to eighty. But even the best years are filled with pain and trouble; soon they disappear, and we fly away. Who can comprehend the power of your anger? Your wrath is as awesome as the fear you deserve. Teach us to realize the brevity of life, so that we may grow in wisdom." -- (Psalm 90:1-4, 10-12, NLT)
It is both the gift and folly of the young to live with the illusion that life will stretch on forever! No one in his 20's should feel the weight of the years quite as I do today, for it would crush him, and steal away his ability to create and dream. He would start nothing of significance, feeling only the cynicism of Solomon who lamented, "Meaningless! Meaningless! Utterly meaningless!" (Eccl. 1.2) But one who has lived to mid-life and continues to enjoy the illusion of immortality is a fool of the highest order! He ought to stand in a field of stones often and read those dates to drive home the point that his life is like the dash between the date of arrival and the date of departure.
The thought need not drive us to despair if we know the promise of Eternal Life. The truth of the Resurrection and the acknowledgement of mortality merge to reshape our goals. No longer is feeding the body and tending its appetites so important. Why devote all our energies trying to preserve that which is inescapably destined for a hole in the ground? Our vision grows higher, our pursuits become nobler; our focus on doing those things, spending our resources, giving ourselves to life that really matters! Such is the challenge of the Word.
"In the resurrection scheme of things, this has to happen: everything perishable taken off the shelves and replaced by the imperishable, this mortal replaced by the immortal. Then the saying will come true: Death swallowed by triumphant Life! Who got the last word, oh, Death? Oh, Death, who's afraid of you now? It was sin that made death so frightening and law-code guilt that gave sin its leverage, its destructive power. But now in a single victorious stroke of Life, all three-sin, guilt, death-are gone, the gift of our Master, Jesus Christ. Thank God! With all this going for us, my dear, dear friends, stand your ground. And don't hold back. Throw yourselves into the work of the Master, confident that nothing you do for him is a waste of time or effort." (1 Corinthians 15:53-58, The Message)
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PS - Thank you for allowing me to share my journey with you. I promise to move on now and stop dragging you into my grief! I have not been able to acknowledge your notes, your cards, your thoughts - they are so many. Please know, I read each one, thanking God for your love and prayers.
Jerry
Tuesday, February 10, 2009
What only today offers!
But, many, perhaps most, would likely say, “Anticipation? Why? It’s just the same old stuff, different day. I’m stuck in a rut, Jerry.” And, they would be wrong. Sure, life is often predictable, boring even. We can’t live on the edge every moment of every day. But, each day offers us many unique moments to enjoy others, to show concern, to discover God’s grace in otherwise ordinary circumstances. Let me tell you an open secret: If we aren’t looking for those moments, they will pass us by!
In his book, “If You Want to Walk on Water, You've Got to Get Out of the Boat” John Ortberg tells a story about a relative named Florence. When she died the family was cleaning out her home. In the attic, her grand-daughter found an exquisite set of china. It was a hand- painted set made in Bavaria before WW II. No one in the family remembered EVER seeing the china set for dinner. After inquiries were made to older members of the family, it was discovered that when Florence was very young she was given the china over a period of years. As she received each piece she carefully wrapped it and put it away to use for a 'special' occasion. No occasion ever came along and Florence's precious china remained in the boxes unused after 60 years, hidden in the attic. It would have been given away to the Salvation Army had not an observant grand-daughter taken time to open some old boxes! Now those beautiful dishes grace the table at the Ortberg home at every excuse for an occasion!
That's sad story! Florence feared her precious plates would get broken so she never used them. In reality, they may as well have been broken for all the joy they brought to her life and to her family! She missed the opportunity to experience joy that might have been hers on ordinary days. At least with her precious china, she played it safe, and her treasure was essentially worthless. What a joy that china might have been to Florence and her family if only she saw everyday as an occasion to celebrate life. At the end of her life she would have left a chipped up set of china and every chip would have told another story of a dinner served with joy!
There are two reasons many people live in mediocrity, with unfulfilled dreams and with unmet potential -- Fear and Laziness. Fear is, by far, the more potently crippling force. The Enemy's lie is -- "Take care of yourself. Preserve yourself. Hold onto what you have. Circle the wagons. Don't risk, always play safe."
A man in a story Jesus told bought that lie completely. It is a story about three managers found the 25th chapter of Matthew’s Gospel. A wealthy man was going on a journey and called these managers into his office to give them each a trust to care for in his absence. He gave each one just the right amount that he could manage, an amount in keeping with the ability of that man. Years later, the man called these managers to give an accounting of what they had done with his wealth. Two men had diligently worked at their responsibility. They saw opportunity in the ordinary and, over time, they doubled the wealth entrusted to their care.
The third was a pathetic person, apparently fully in the grip of both fear and laziness. He appeared before his old boss with a dirty bag and offered up this line: "Then the servant with the one bag of gold came and said, `Sir, I know you are a hard man, harvesting crops you didn't plant and gathering crops you didn't cultivate. I was afraid I would lose your money, so I hid it in the earth and here it is.'" -- Matthew 25:24-25 NLT
“Well, at least he kept it safe,” we might say. But, I assure you that the Master did not commend the man for his risk avoidance! The master’s word to that ‘play it safe, never anticipate the opportunities’ guy are downright terrifying! He said, “That’s a terrible way to live! It’s criminal to live cautiously like that! If you knew I was after the best, why did you do less than the least? The least you could have done would have been to invest the sum with the bankers, where at least I would have gotten a little interest…. Throw him out into utter darkness’" (Matthew 25:26-27,30, The Message)
Don't let your life become a story of 'what might have been, if only.' Get on with life today. Take what God has given you and put it to work. Take a risk. No, not the kind of risk taken by fools in pursuit of fantasy!!
Rather, learn to listen to the Spirit as He blows through your life on the ordinary days. Let Him show you the person whose life would be saved by an act of kindness. Let Him lead you to forgiveness, to love, to discovery of a life of no regrets! Life will be richer for the trying.
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You are my life, O precious Christ.
You are to me,
The pearl of greatest price.
My love for You will never die.
Jesus, You are my life.
I come to You. I run to You.
There's no greater joy than knowing You.
O Holy Fire, Love's Purest Light.
Burn all desires 'til
You are my one delight.
My love for You will never die
Jesus, You are my life.
O conquering King, conquer my heart
And make of me a pleasing gift to God
My love for You will never die
Jesus, You are my life.
You Are My Life
Steve Fry © 1994 Maranatha Praise, Inc. / Word Music, Inc. (a div. of Word Music Group, Inc.)
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Monday, February 09, 2009
Gone, really truly, gone
The sorrow I feel is like a presence stalking me. I laugh, enjoy a child’s smile, love the sunshine, pray, sing – then it takes me, almost physically holding onto me, paralyzing me for a minute, dragging a sob from my throat. I write like I’m the first to know this. And I smile at my wonderment! After all, I have walked hundreds of families through sorrow and loss. I know the process, but this is not rational. It is raw emotion.
One thing that drives that presence of grief back is hope. The Scripture tells me that "we want you to know what will happen to the believers who have died so you will not grieve like people who have no hope." (1 Thessalonians 4:13, NLT) From the Word, I learn many things that bring me some measure of comfort. Primary among them is that there will be a Resurrection that will reunite body and soul and all those who await the coming the Lord! And, too, I learn that God is near, His Presence, a refuge. "God is our refuge and strength, always ready to help in times of trouble. So we will not fear when earthquakes come and the mountains crumble into the sea. Let the oceans roar and foam. Let the mountains tremble as the waters surge!" (Psalm 46:1-3, NLT)
The other gift that makes this passage endurable is love. In this I am a most blessed man. People don’t even really know stop to say, “I’m sorry for you,” and it helps. Grown men and kids alike hugged me yesterday as I moved through the congregation, each embrace a reminder of love. My kids call and listen to me ramble and weep and I feel their love. My wife tenderly holds my hand while I cry, wordlessly loving me. Never before, in my entire life, have I realized how important it is to have a web of love woven as that proverbial ‘safety net!’
There is one more thing that makes this day when I will bury my Dad bearable – his legacy! He was no simple saint. Yes, he loved God and people, no question about that. But, he was a complex man, too. I knew his humanity, his sinful nature. But, I saw him take the Spirit’s power and beat back the powers of sin and darkness – in himself and in the world. I have received notes that tell me of acts, big and small, in which he left a better world, for the glory of God. One man told me that on his first visit to Dad’s church he was greeting by him at the door. Dad asked, “Do you have a Bible?” When the man said no, Dad handed him his own leather-bound study Bible on the spot! Another told me about a time when Dad gently rebuked his harshness with his kids and said, “I always try to find a way to say ‘yes.’” Many have written to tell me how he led them to Jesus and their lives were changed. I am a living legacy, passing along the faith, he gave to me –not so much in his eloquence, but by example.
Tim McGraw’s song urges us to “live like you were dyin'!” Because, we are! Someday, there will be rip in time and we will step through it and be gone. May those who are left to weep have the comfort of the Resurrection hope because we have walked with Christ and in His grace. I want to leave a legacy; not of fortune, nor of fame; but of loving others.
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Remember this ....
He has achieved success...
who has lived well, laughed often, and loved much;
who has enjoyed the trust of pure women,
the respect of intelligent men,
and the love of little children;
who has filled his niche and accomplished his task;
and has left the world a better place than he found it,
whether an improved poppy, a perfect poem, or a rescued soul;
who has always looked for the best in others,
and given them the best he had;
whose life was an inspiration;
whose memory a benediction.
Bessie Anderson Stanley's definition of "success" in
Brown Book Magazine, 1904, as quoted in "Dear Abby," July, 1992)
Thursday, February 05, 2009
Hupomone
The writer of Hebrews calls for us to take a look at the distance runner as an example of how to live as a Christian. Unlike a sprinter who explodes from the starting block, pouring everything he has into a 100 meter dash, we are called to set a pace that we can maintain, steadily and consistently, living for Jesus– with patience, with endurance, with hupomone! The idea wrapped in the word is holding steady even under intense pressure!
All around us we can find examples of people who start something with gusto- only to collapse in the backstretch!
Marriages begin with great romance and fireworks, but too often, fizzle under the strain of kids and bills.
People head into new jobs with the intent of being the 'next best' only to become a place holder, a burnt out functionary, instead of an inspiring performer.
Students go off to college intending to make the Dean's list and too easily get sidetracked into the three day weekend party life style.
And.... yes, people invite Jesus Christ to become Lord and begin their Believer's journey with enthusiasm (interesting word, by the way, that comes from a compound word meaning to be full of God). When Believers gather, they are there in church or Bible class. They are discovering God's will and purpose and cheerfully becoming conformed to Christ Jesus. When they pray, it is with childlike simplicity and earnest faith. Then, again too often, over time the joy evaporates under the heat of temptation and pressure and they turn into pew warmers, preacher critics, with a 'form of godliness that denies the real Power.' Their Christianity becomes more of a habit than a source of joyful life.
Hupomone is not about a BIG start, it's about a faithful finish!
Are you a finisher?
Do you take time to think about commitments, praying for guidance - and only embrace those that you will see through to completion?
Jesus told a teaching story about this.
"Is there anyone here who, planning to build a new house, doesn't first sit down and figure the cost so you'll know if you can complete it? If you only get the foundation laid and then run out of money, you're going to look pretty foolish. Everyone passing by will poke fun at you: `He started something he couldn't finish.' Or can you imagine a king going into battle against another king without first deciding whether it is possible with his ten thousand troops to face the twenty thousand troops of the other? And if he decides he can't, won't he send an emissary and work out a truce?" (Luke 14:28-32, The Message)
The implied conclusion is - FINISH what you start! That means - hupomone!
Remember that it isn't "all guts, no glory." Finishers enjoy what mere starters never find: the satisfaction of a job well done, a life well lived, a victor's crown!
Need a boost to stay in the race today?
Here's the way, the follow up verse to the one where we started today–
"Keep your eyes on Jesus, who both began and finished this race we're in.
Study how he did it. Because he never lost sight of where he was headed—that exhilarating finish in and with God —he could put up with anything along the way: cross, shame,
whatever. And now he's there, in the place of honor, right alongside God."
(Hebrews 12:2, The Message)
HUPOMONE! Say through the day. People will think you're nuts. If they ask, just tell'em you're speaking Biblical! Have fun.
Wednesday, February 04, 2009
Chasing the mirage?
And, it is a deception! Happiness is not a goal; it is a by-product of choices that are godly and noble. If a person focuses himself on attaining happiness, he will change course a hundred times trying to hold onto an elusive feeling. That is precisely how millions of people make their day to day decisions and then they wonder, “Why am I so unfulfilled?” After burning through three marriages, moving to yet another town, restarting their live in a fourth new career; they discover that happiness is not a situation or a location. If we choose to focus on self, we make a default choice for something less than God purposed for our lives!
“Jerry, are you the anti-happy guy?” No way, but I do believe that the pursuit of happiness is seriously over-rated in our time. I pursue joy, a similar emotion, but one that comes as a gift to those who put God and others first as Jesus taught in the basic commandments. A life that yields the greater satisfaction over the long term is one guided by the will of the One who designed us.
Jesus Christ says, “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: Love your neighbor as yourself. All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.” (Matthew 22:37-40, NIV) On another occasion, a man quoted these two commands to Him and His response was, “Do this and you will live.” (Luke 10:28, NIV) The word, ‘live,’ in the context does not just mean, ‘keep on breathing.’ It includes vitality and refreshment; a life of fullness!
I’m not polishing my halo, so please do not read the next few lines in that way. I share this only as an illustration of the point. A year ago, when Dad was diagnosed with cancer, I realized that not only his life would change; so would mine. Because he lives 2.5 hours away, I knew that my priorities would need to be altered to make it possible for me walk with Mom and him through this valley as love requires. For months, every week I have spent my day off and the two nights before and after at his side. It ain’t always happy time! It’s required sacrifice of time, rest, and money. I don’t always even want to make the trip knowing I’ll come home sad and tired. But, I have experienced great joy in being a support, in sharing the tears, in loving their kids. If I just wanted to be happy, I’d avoid sick rooms and tears! But, loving him has opened the door to a deeper experience of joy, allowing me to know love and give love. God be praised!
Disciple, refuse to chase the mirage of happiness. It will always be one day, one dollar, one experience beyond your reach! Instead, choose joy! Obey God today. Love somebody today. Listen for the Spirit’s urging today and respond with a ready, ‘yes, Lord!’ Here’s a word from the Word. Let it fill your mind as you prayerfully ponder it.
"The Lord says, “I will guide you along the best pathway for your life. I will advise you and watch over you. Do not be like a senseless horse or mule that needs a bit and bridle to keep it under control.” Many sorrows come to the wicked, but unfailing love surrounds those who trust the Lord. So rejoice in the Lord and be glad, all you who obey him! Shout for joy, all you whose hearts are pure!" (Psalm 32:8-11, NLT)
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I have found a wondrous Savior,
Jesus Christ, the Soul's Delight.
Every blessing of His favor,
Fills my heart with hope so bright.
Heav'nly wisdom He provides me,
Grace to keep my Spirit free.
In His own sweet way He guides me,
When the path I cannot see.
Jesus is the Joy of Living;
He's the King of Life to me.
Unto Him my all I'm giving,
His forevermore to be.
I will do what He commands me.
Anywhere He leads I'll go.
Jesus is the joy of living,
He's the dearest Friend I know.
Jesus is the Joy of Living
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Tuesday, February 03, 2009
Meeting God under the oak of Ophrah
Change agents today embrace things like:
-A radical commitment to your marriage that puts nurturing your spouse and children ahead of financial gain and/or personal pleasure.
-A choice to live with less things while investing more in ministry and people.
-Tithing to God, first; and building wealth, second.
-Choosing sexual purity - in thought and actions.
One of my favorite ‘changers’ is a man who God called in desperate times. The people of Israel were oppressed by a powerful neighbor tribe. It was so bad that the Israelites abandoned their homes and fields to live in the mountains in caves. God choose a person to be the catalyst for change. He found Gideon threshing his wheat (that is, separating the grain from the stalks and the husks) in a winepress, hidden away under the oak of Ophrah.
Usually threshing was done on a large open floor where the breezes could blow away the chaff in the process, but this future leader was afraid of the marauders stealing his crop. The Angel of the Lord found him there. "Mighty hero, the Lord is with you!" (Judges 6:12) I love Gideon's response. He says, "Oh, yeah? If You're with us, why are we hiding in caves? And, by the way, I'm a hero? Well, you don't know my clan. We're known as wimps and I'm the wimpiest of them!" {my paraphrase!}
As long as you only see 'what is' instead of 'what could be' you will be incapable of change- both in yourself and in your world. God helped Gideon to create a new dream. His story is a fascinating study of the patience of God to develop a man He has chosen for His own purposes. The key to his success is this: The Lord said to him, "I will be with you. And you will destroy the Midianites as if you were fighting against one man." (Judges 6:16) He started a campaign of spiritual renewal which provoked just about everybody in the land. Because he challenged the status quo, his own people sought to kill him!!
Changers irritate people! Nobody enjoys having their life messed up - even it is already a mess! They learn to live without seeing the junk that is piled up in their heart! The Isrealites had come to accept their misery as normal.
After a long campaign, first to win the hearts of his own people and then to lead them to defeat the invaders; Gideon succeeded in bringing about the dream that God sparked in his heart at a hidden winepress in the back country. He led Israel for 40 years and this is the way the Bible sums up his life: "That is the story of how Israel subdued Midian, which never recovered. Throughout the rest of Gideon's lifetime—about forty years—the land was at peace." (Judges 8:28) This was the legacy of a man who saw himself, at first, as "the weakest man, from the weakest family, in the weakest tribe!"
Disciple, set your sights on God’s faithfulness, then ask Him to empower you.
Change starts in our hearts!
Let Him show you the world through His eyes; breaking your heart, pulling you from indifference.
Then, become a catalyst for change - a Kingdom Builder.
May your life be an influence -
-that brings others to wholeness,
-that leads them to freedom,
-that inspires them to love the God who loves you!
Monday, February 02, 2009
Somebody’s watching you!
Surely your son or daughter will pattern themselves, both consciously and unconsciously to be ‘just like’ you. Maybe it’s that neighbor across the street who is looking for spiritual reality who is inspecting your life! Is there a younger Christian looking for a model of faith in you? Somebody’s watching you, disciple. Will your life stand up to their scrutiny? If they look deeper than the surface will they find integrity, sincere devotion to the One you claim to follow? I always attempt to remember that the best lessons are those lived. The choices I make are much more influential, long-term, than the words I say.
With no sense of arrogance or self-aggrandizement we should be able to invite others to follow in our footsteps. Paul wrote to Believers and told them to "Join with others in following my example, brothers, and take note of those who live according to the pattern we gave you." (Philippians 3:17, NIV) He commended another local group of Believers for learning from his life. "You paid careful attention to the way we lived among you, and determined to live that way yourselves. In imitating us, you imitated the Master. Although great trouble accompanied the Word, you were able to take great joy from the Holy Spirit!—taking the trouble with the joy, the joy with the trouble." (1 Thessalonians 1:5-6, The Message)
Make sure your eyes on focused on Jesus Christ as the Perfect Model. Ultimately, He is the Way and we all follow Him. Disciple, I urge you to deal with the inconsistencies, the flaws, the sins so that those who choose you as their model will not be discouraged or disillusioned when they really get to know you! Be mentored and mentor somebody. That’s God’s plan for discipleship.
"Command and teach these things. … Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress. Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers."
(1 Timothy 4:15-16, NIV)
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Jesus calls me; I must follow,
Follow Him today.
When His tender voice is pleading,
How can I delay?
Follow, I will follow Thee, my Lord,
Follow every passing day.
My tomorrows are all known to Thee;
Thou wilt lead me all the way.
Howard Brown
Public Domain
Friday, January 30, 2009
Stuck in a rut?
I am a long, long way from perfect, but I am growing in grace. Temptation stills worms its way into my heart and mind. Too often I allow ungodly thoughts, words, and actions to be my choice but I rejoice in the process described in the Word as being " transformed into his likeness with ever-increasing glory!" (2 Corinthians 3:18, NIV) Praise God I am not who I was and I look forward to who I will be under the tutelage of the Holy Spirit! Religion didn’t do this for me! Immersing myself in church culture and work did not change my heart. The transformation is gradual, the Truth of God replacing the deceptions of evil, the Spirit working to bring understanding, and repentance bringing change. I am unwilling to resign to life and say, “I am what I am.” To do so, would be to get stuck in a rut!
One of the more pathetic sights in this world is a person who has stopped developing emotionally and spiritually. That 45 year old man who is still trying to wear his high school football jacket, who is trying to make what hair he has left look cool, and who is still working to impress ‘chicks,’ is a joke to everyone but himself. Being a teenager is fun, but unless we grow out of that stage we look and act increasingly foolish! Same principle applies to a Christian who refuses to grow in Christ, to develop character, deal with his hang-ups, and move forward. Disciple, if you’re making the same arguments and fighting the same battles today that you fought 20 years ago, I urge you to go to your knees and ask God to rock your world! Engage in a fast, dig into the Scripture, find a spiritual director and; for God’s sake – grow up!
Perhaps all this sounds like too much emphasis on ‘works religion’ and not enough reliance on God’s grace. Let’s be clear. This is not about perfecting one’s self with guilt, psychological tricks, or thumb screws! This is about pursuing God whole-heartedly. Genuine spiritual depth is not about superficially looking better, nor is it about mastery of Scripture trivia! It is about walking with God, being more and more His intimate friend, giving larger and larger chunks of Self over to His mastery. He leads, we follow! To be sure, such intimacy will not just happen to us. He will bring us into situations where we come face to face with some part of ourselves and give us the choice – live to Me or choose to live for Self. By the Power of the Spirit we say, “Yes,” and grow on… to the next challenge point. And so it goes. The Light of Christ shines into the dark places of our lives and we discover the pain of our sinfulness. But, with genuine repentance, we also find the incredible joy of forgiveness and serenity of walking with God. The result is a beautiful holiness that others sense is heart deep, not just a pious affectation that we adopt for certain situations.
Here’s how Paul described the process of spiritual maturation. Ask God to help you to choose this Way and together, let’s make His Name glorious. Take a few moments to soak in his testimony and be challenged by it.
"Yes, everything else is worthless when compared with the infinite value of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have discarded everything else, counting it all as garbage, so that I could gain Christ and become one with him. I no longer count on my own righteousness through obeying the law; rather, I become righteous through faith in Christ. For God’s way of making us right with himself depends on faith.
I want to know Christ and experience the mighty power that raised him from the dead. I want to suffer with him, sharing in his death, so that one way or another I will experience the resurrection from the dead! I don’t mean to say that I have already achieved these things or that I have already reached perfection. But I press on to possess that perfection (read – completeness or maturity) for which Christ Jesus first possessed me. (Simply put – I am growing up!)
No, dear brothers and sisters, I have not achieved it, but I focus on this one thing: Forgetting
the past and looking forward to what lies ahead, I press on to reach the end of the race and receive the heavenly prize for which God, through Christ Jesus, is calling us." (Philippians 3:8-14, NLT)
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He gave me beauty for ashes,
The oil of joy for mourning,
The garment of praise
For the spirit of heaviness,
That we might be trees of righteousness,
The planting of the Lord,
That He might be glorified.
Beauty for Ashes
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Thursday, January 29, 2009
It just isn’t natural!
John Maxwell writes that ‘a major cause of poor mental health is self-absorption. Selfishness ultimately hurts not only the people around a self-focused person, but also the selfish person himself. … That is the reason that Dr. Karl Menninger (renowned psychiatrist) responded the way he did when someone asked, ‘What would advise a person to do if he felt a nervous breakdown coming on?’ Most people expected him reply, ‘consult a psychiatrist.’ To their astonishment, he said, ‘Lock up your house, go across the railroad tracks, find someone in need, and do something to help that person.’” - Failing Forward, Nelson, 2000
A young husband wept as he talked with me. “How could I have been so dumb?” In counseling, a year ago, his wife had begged him for attention, asked him to be tender, and to take an interest in her. Stupidly, he responded ‘just deal with life. I am who I am and don’t plan to change.’ Months later, with a broken heart, she walked out on their marriage. Only then, did he realize how selfish he was; too late! If he had been willing to learn to give, to forget his need to ‘hang out’ with his friends, his wife would surely have met him half-way. But, he wanted to live on his own terms and now he could, alone.
The wisest Counselor said - "If you try to hang on to your life, you will lose it. But if you give up your life for my sake, you will save it. And what do you benefit if you gain the whole world but are yourself lost or destroyed?" (Luke 9:24-25, NLT)
Gain by giving. Win by losing. Forget yourself, find yourself!
It just isn’t natural!
Perhaps not, but, it’s the truth!
In these troubled times, most of us will struggle with the instinct to protect ourselves, to hoard our resources, to feed Self first. Take the way of Jesus Christ Who said, "Give away your life; you’ll find life given back, but not merely given back—given back with bonus and blessing. Giving, not getting, is the way. Generosity begets generosity.” (Luke 6:38, The Message)
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There are two kind of folks,
There's takers and givers.
There's gripers and complainers
and big-hearted liv'rs.
It depends on how we choose
to spend our days.
'Cause we can hoard up all we´ve got
or give it all away!
If you want more happy
than your heart will hold,
If you want to stand taller,
if the truth were told,
take whatever you have
and give it away.
If you want less lonely
and lot more fun
and deep satisfaction
when the day is done,
throw your heart wide open
and give it away
Copyright – Bill Gaither
Wednesday, January 28, 2009
I’ll take one portion of ‘Jesus’
In an article “Jesus Is Not a Brand” published in Christianity Today, January 2009, Tyler Wigg-Stephenson responds to that idea. He writes, “This attitude inhibits the disciple’s growth into living God-centered, neighbor-focused life. Yes, the Christian life brings fulfillment beyond imagination, but such fulfillment is strangely elusive if it is your main priority as a Christian. Indeed it only comes when we seek God instead of ourselves. Those who come to the Church expecting to find brand satisfaction or seeking to save their lives will find neither. … How do we convince people who are dedicated to self-creation that life is really about the grace and power of God?”
It requires a major overall of perspective that can only be accomplished by the Spirit. The Bible calls it conversion and I am convinced that few of us have experienced that in fullness! We love Jesus, but more for the practical things we believe He can do for us (think – “Does it work for me?”); than for the simple delight of knowing Him! Perhaps the current economic crisis in America may prove a boon for disciples by breaking us from our love of stuff and self and driving us into the arms of Jesus.
Then, too, Christianity cannot be all God wants it to be for us, if we are unwilling to radically love others! Over this past year, my travels to central Pennsylvania to care for my Dad, brings me into contact with a culture that rejects consumerism, that is committed to communal living, and that uses material goods less to pursue illusory happiness, than to simply live. Who are these people? The Amish! They have no need for dozens of shoes or outfits. They dress the same- for market, for church, and at home! Nobody impresses their neighbor with a designer name brand. They have no need to buy a new something because it’s fashionable, for fashion is a meaningless concept to them.
Meaning in life for the Amish is not about ‘things’ at all! It is about people. If their neighbor’s barn burns down (as one did recently) the whole community gathers resources, comes together, and rebuilds the barn in days, making a celebration of getting their brother back in business. In Amish culture (admittedly I have a limited understanding) it’s seldom about ‘me’ and always about ‘we.’
We cannot take just enough “Jesus” to make life work! We cannot hold onto our selves and cling to Him at the same time. Ponder these words of Jesus, familiar though they are. Really think about them. They will rock your world.
“You can’t worship two gods at once. Loving one god, you’ll end up hating the other. Adoration of one feeds contempt for the other. You can’t worship God and Money both.
“If you decide for God, living a life of God-worship, it follows that you don’t fuss about what’s on the table at mealtimes or whether the clothes in your closet are in fashion. There is far more to your life than the food you put in your stomach, more to your outer appearance than the clothes you hang on your body. Look at the birds, free and unfettered, not tied down to a job description, careless in the care of God. And you count far more to him than birds. “Has anyone by fussing in front of the mirror ever gotten taller by so much as an inch? All this time and money wasted on fashion—do you think it makes that much difference?
Instead of looking at the fashions, walk out into the fields and look at the wildflowers. They never primp or shop, but have you ever seen color and design quite like it? The ten best-dressed men and women in the country look shabby alongside them. “If God gives such attention to the appearance of wildflowers—most of which are never even seen—don’t you think he’ll attend to you, take pride in you, do his best for you?
What I’m trying to do here is to get you to relax, to not be so preoccupied with getting, so you can respond to God’s giving. People who don’t know God and the way he works fuss over these things, but you know both God and how he works. Steep your life in God-reality, God-initiative, God-provisions. Don’t worry about missing out. You’ll find all your everyday human concerns will be met."
(Matthew 6:24-33, The Message)
Tuesday, January 27, 2009
Do Only Perfect People Go to Heaven?
So, is Heaven a place we dream of, but where only God and the angels dwell?
Can we, should we, hope for a home with the Lord, or is that just a dream, beyond our reach?
Only those who are perfect live with God, but reaching that blessed state is not the result of our effort! "God did it for us. Out of sheer generosity he put us in right standing with himself. A pure gift. He got us out of the mess we’re in and restored us to where he always wanted us to be. And he did it by means of Jesus Christ." (Romans 3:24, The Message) In the opening of the letter to the Ephesians, Paul writes of the amazingly stupendous love of God for you and me. Then in chapter 2, he seems to abruptly change tone. "As for you, you were dead in your transgressions and sins… All of us also lived among them at one time, gratifying the cravings of our sinful nature and following its desires and thoughts. Like the rest, we were by nature objects of wrath." (Ephesians 2:3, NIV)
Then, he writes, "But, God..." There is the Divine Exception, the Immanuel Intervention, that makes our hope of a home in Heaven (and a life in His Presence right here, right now) possible! "But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so very much, that even while we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. ... God saved you by his special favor when you believed. And you can't take credit for this; it is a gift from God. Salvation is not a reward for the good things we have done, so none of us can boast about it. For we are God's masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so that we can do the good things he planned for us long ago." --Ephesians 2:3-10 NLT
The Perfect God did not take the “Grandpa” route in dealing with our sins. When my grandsons disobey I’m a marshmallow – “Ah, come on. Let it go,” I tell their dad. I’m not charged with forming their character, with helping them become better. I just get to love on them! God is our Father, not our Grandpa. He cannot look at our sinfulness and brush it off, overlook it, or excuse it. But, He can offer a sacrifice that forgives us, an atonement for our guilt debt, and the power of the Spirit that changes us from sinner to saint. That is exactly what He’s done for us.
Disciple, do not abuse His grace. Do not mistake His mercy for approval of sin. Rather, let Him lead you through the tests and trials that perfect your faith, that bring you to maturity in the Way. Invite the Spirit to work deeply in you to produce the ‘beauty of holiness in you’ which will honor your Savior. This ‘perfection’ thing is a process – a work of our Deliverer and the disciplines of the Spirit.
Take this thought as your statement of purpose-- "Not that I have already obtained all this, or have already been made perfect, but I press on to take hold of that for which Christ Jesus took hold of me. Brothers, I do not consider myself yet to have taken hold of it. But one thing I do: Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead, I press on toward the goal to win the prize for which God has called me heavenward in Christ Jesus." -- Phil. 3:12-14
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Sing the wondrous love of Jesus,
Sing His mercy and His grace;
In the mansions bright and blessed,
He'll prepare for us a place.
When we all get to heaven,
What a day of rejoicing that will be!
When we all see Jesus,
We'll sing and shout the victory.
While we walk the pilgrim pathway,
Clouds will overspread the sky;
But when traveling days are over,
Not a shadow, not a sigh.
Let us then be true and faithful,
Trusting, serving every day;
Just one glimpse of Him in glory
Will the toils of life repay.
Onward to the prize before us!
Soon His beauty we'll behold;
Soon the pearly gates will open,
We shall tread the streets of gold.
When We All Get To Heaven
Hewitt, Eliza E. / Wilson, Emily D.© Public Domain
Monday, January 26, 2009
The Last Enemy
For just over one year, mortality has met me just about every Monday when I visit Dad’s sick room! On January 10, 2008 my Dad went through surgery for a blocked intestine, which revealed a mesenteric carcinoma that was well advanced. And, in the year that passed, he has gone from thin, to weak, and for the last several months to confinement in his bed. His dignity and independence has been taken away, little by little; and now he requires ‘round the clock care like an infant, dependent on others to meet even his most basic needs. Even as I write this, I am sitting at his side, getting sips of water, replacing the comforter that he keeps pulling off. This experience, though new to me, is a common road for as the Bible says, “man is destined to die.”
In many funerals, while standing next to a casket holding a lifeless body, I have observed that death leaves us with an abandoned house. I point out that an empty house quickly loses its glory, that it falls to ruin, leaving us to wonder what it was like when it was a home to a family that tended the lawn, planted flowers, and fixed the fence! At death, the spirit leaves the body, and we are left with a shell, nothing more! Death is ugly- both in the process and its apparent finality. And yet… Oh, how thankful I am that death is not the End!
The Bible says, "So you see, just as death came into the world through a man, now the resurrection from the dead has begun through another man. … And the last enemy to be destroyed is death. … It is the same way with the resurrection of the dead. Our earthly bodies are planted in the ground when we die, but they will be raised to live forever. Our bodies are buried in brokenness, but they will be raised in glory. They are buried in weakness, but they will be raised in strength." (1 Corinthians 15:22, 26, 42-44, NLT) This is the wonder of our Christian faith. My Dad’s body is broken, his physical life ebbing away. But, our hope is strong, for we see Jesus Christ once dead, now alive. He is our Prototype, His experience promised to be our experience.
Again from the Bible: “The first man, Adam, became a living person.” But the last Adam—that is, Christ—is a life-giving Spirit. … Just as we are now like the earthly man, we will someday be like the heavenly man. What I am saying, dear brothers and sisters, is that our physical bodies cannot inherit the Kingdom of God. These dying bodies cannot inherit what will last forever." (1 Corinthians 15: 45, 49-50, NLT)
Do I understand how all this happens? No! It is faith-based. How can such an ugly process lead to such a glorious triumph? Only God knows. "But thank God! He gives us victory over sin and death through our Lord Jesus Christ." (1 Corinthians 15:57, NLT) My hope today is not shaped by science, though I value the knowledge it brings me. My hope does not grow from philosophical systems that explain mysteries to me, though I appreciate the importance of wisdom! I trust in God!
Here’s a word from the Word. It gives me courage to face this last enemy – death – and I pray it will encourage you, too. Jesus gave this Promise to His disciples the night before He went to the Cross. “Don’t let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God, and trust also in me. There is more than enough room in my Father’s home. If this were not so, would I have told you that I am going to prepare a place for you? When everything is ready, I will come and get you, so that you will always be with me where I am." (John 14:1-3, NLT)
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The kingdom of our God is here,
Heaven is in my heart.
The presence of His majesty,
Heaven is in my heart.
And in His presence joy abounds,
Heaven is in my heart.
The light of holiness surrounds,
Heaven is in my heart.
His precious life on me He spent,
Heaven is in my heart.
To give me life without an end,
Heaven is in my heart.
In Christ is all my confidence,
Heaven is in my heart.
The hope of my inheritance,
Heaven is in my heart.
We are a temple for His throne,
Heaven is in my heart.
And Christ is the foundation stone,
Heaven is in my heart.
He will return to take us home,
Heaven is in my heart.
The Spirit and the Bride say, "Come!"
Heaven is in my heart.
Heaven Is In My Heart
Kendrick, Graham© 1991 Make Way Music (Admin. by Music Services)
CCLI License No. 810055
Friday, January 23, 2009
America’s most common gathering
Mega-churches get most of the TV exposure, leading us to believe that people go to church for big, expensive programs, great preaching, and concert quality music. Wrong! The large majority of those millions of worshippers are attending neighborhood churches with an average attendance less than 100 people where the preaching is often mediocre and the music something less than superb! And yet we go – again and again – week after week!
While people think they go to church for a program, in actuality they go for a Person!
Eugene Peterson points out three factors that pull people to worship.
1. Worship gives life a working structure.
2. Worship nurtures our need for a relationship with God.
3. Worship centers our attention on the wisdom of God. – Life at Its Best, Zondervan, 2006
When we pause from the commerce of daily life, we have the opportunity to regain a sense of what/who we were created to be. Regardless of the style of our church’s liturgy – from rigidly formal to charismatically chaotic – behind it all is the Spirit reminding us that we are small and He is big! Worship gives us a language for loving God. When we worship our heart expresses our sometimes unconscious longing to know Him. The very act of gathering with others for the purpose of worship says, “I’m reaching out to You.” Worship includes hearing the Word of God. The Bible is read, the preacher opens the Text and speaks from it. That very Word shapes us – from the inside out – and comforts us too.
If a church abandons the pursuit of God and becomes a gathering focused on anything or anyone other than the Lord, it will die for the real, if unconscious, needs of the worshippers will not be nurtured. If the Word is stripped from worship, replaced by poetry or prose of man, the worshippers will starve and that church will die. The upward focus on the Eternal, Unfathomable, Transcendent God is what sets worship gatherings apart from all other human events!
Make gathering for worship a consistent part of each week! The very act will improve your life, perhaps not the first week, but most certainly over time. Deal with the consumer expectations that can poison your worship experience. Instead of focusing on how you feel, what you think you need, or who spoke kindly to you – just go to present yourself to God! Show up a few minutes early and let your soul catch up with your body so you can fully worship. Attend with your heart and mind as well as your body! In other words, pay attention and participate. Sing! Pray! Listen! Respond!
And like the Psalmist, you too will sing, “I rejoiced with those who said to me, “Let us go to the house of the Lord." (Psalm 122:1, NIV)
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Light of the world You stepped down into darkness,
opened my eyes, let me see;
Beauty that made this heart adore You,
Hope of a life spent with You.
King of all days, oh so highly exalted.
glorious in Heaven above!
Humbly You came to earth You created,
All for love's sake became poor.
Here I am to worship! Here I am to bow down!
Here I am to say that You're my God.
You're altogether lovely, altogether worthy,
Altogether wonderful to me.
Here I Am To WorshipTim Hughes © 2000 Kingsway Music
CCLI License No. 810055
Thursday, January 22, 2009
Driving forward looking in the rearview mirror?
People who spend too much time in either yesterday or tomorrow will lose today. The consequence is a wasted life, doing nothing of meaning! Productive or not, yesterday's gone! Got plans for tomorrow? Good. Planning is important, but tomorrow may never arrive for some of us.
Today is God's gift to you. Make it count.
Moses prayed, "... teach us to number our days, that we may gain a heart of wisdom." (Psalm 90:12, NKJV) "Number?" Interesting way to put it. He was asking God to impress on us the need to keep our days ordered so that our lives do not descend into confusion and chaos. Ever notice how things go to ruin, how messes develop, so quickly? In just a few days my office collects clutter, the back seat of my car fills up with 'stuff.' I’m forever picking up the stuff that accumulates in the hallways of the church! Where does that stuff come from? Unless I take steps to impose order today, I will find chaos has developed by next week!
Many years ago, in a management training session, I learned a valuable little lesson – “Whenever possible, finish the task you’ve started.” The man leading the course said, “Handle paper once!” He was teaching us to be decisive, to make a decision, if possible, and finish the job.
Unproductive people live in the middle of unfinished tasks that they sincerely plan to finish but never do - because they are paralyzed by the chaos their disorganization has created. I know that I must set aside blocks of time that are dedicated to specific tasks and work at them until they’re done. It works! A job as simple as paying bills or sorting mail becomes much easier if I focus on it, don't do anything else, until I finish. That way there is no leftover clutter laying around adding to the mess.
People live in amazing messes-- unfinished business, undone laundry, unpaid bills, emotional debts, half-done projects, unfulfilled dreams, unmet expectations -- in large part because they don't just do something today. Today's tasks, half done, get added to the pile of yesterday's regrets. Very quickly the whole thing becomes an unmanageable collection of chaotic confusion.
I can hear some of you commenting: "Jerry, you don't understand. I'm just not an organized person. I hate planning, prioritizing, and order." That, my friend, is an excuse. If you will not discipline yourself to finish a task today, even a simple one, then prepare for chaos tomorrow! And, please, don't complain about how others enjoy a productive life or a well-developed character because "they're so lucky."
One guy wryly observed, "The harder I work, the luckier I get." That could be prideful. We must not ignore the blessings of God. But, there is an element of truth in that comment. Ever since the curse of sin fell on Creation, both a Deliverer and diligence are always required to bring beauty out of the chaos of life. Jesus Christ is our Deliverer, but the diligence is left to us- today!
Want a sculpted body? Exercise!
Want a beautiful garden? Weed it regularly.
Want to enjoy friendships? Invest in others regularly.
Want to live intimately with God? Practice the spiritual disciplines!
Great work start with today's work!
Peter points out the blessings of God's gift of grace and reminds us that God has provided ALL we need to live productive lives today. Then, with the inspiration of the Holy Spirit, he tells us that we have to make a decision NOW, to do something NOW, to work at ordering our lives NOW.
“So don't lose a minute in building on what you've been given, complementing your basic faith with good character, spiritual understanding, alert discipline, passionate patience, reverent wonder, warm friendliness, and generous love, each dimension fitting into and developing the others. With these qualities active and growing in your lives, no grass will grow under your feet, no day will pass without its reward as you mature in your experience of our Master Jesus.
Without these qualities you can't see what's right before you, oblivious that your old sinful life has been wiped off the books.
So, friends, confirm God's invitation to you, his choice of you. Don't put it off; do it now. Do this, and you'll have your life on a firm footing.” --- (2 Peter 1:5-10, The Message) ___________________________
Hold tight to the sound of the music of living,
Happy songs from the laughter of children at play;
Hold my hand as we run through the sweet fragrant meadows,
Making memories of what was today.
Tender words, gentle touch, and a good cup of coffee,
And someone that loves me and wants me to stay;
Hold them near while they're here, and don't wait for tomorrow
To look back and wish for today.
We have this moment to hold in our hands,
And to touch as it slips through our fingers like sand;
Yesterday's gone, and tomorrow may never come,
But we have this moment today.
We Have This Moment Today
Bill and Gloria Gaither ©1975 by William J. Gaither
Authentic, Accepting, Accelerating <http://www.WashingtonAG.com>
Wednesday, January 21, 2009
Rick Warren’s Prayer
If you want a great model for your prayers for President Obama, take Pastor Rick Warren’s prayer at the inaugural ceremony yesterday. It was not a speech! It is a real prayer, addressed to God, and it is full of meaning. Make it yours. Remember, God’s blessings on this man become beneficial to the whole nation. The text of that prayer follows.
"Almighty God, our Father, everything we see and everything we can’t see exists because of You alone. It all comes from You, it all belongs to You, it all exists for Your glory. History is your story. The Scripture tells us, 'Hear, oh Israel, the Lord is our God, the Lord is one' and You are the compassionate and merciful one and You are loving to everyone You have made. Now today we rejoice not only in America’s peaceful transfer of power for the 43rd time, we celebrate a hinge-point of history with the inauguration of our first African American president of the United States. We are so grateful to live in this land, a land of unequaled possibility, where a a son of an African immigrant can rise to the highest level of our leadership. And we know today that Dr. King and a great cloud of witnesses are shouting in heaven.
Give to our new president, Barack Obama, the wisdom to lead us with humility, the courage to lead us with integrity,
the compassion to lead us with generosity.
Bless and protect him, his family, Vice President Biden, the Cabinet and every one of our freely elected leaders.
Help us, oh God, to remember that we are Americans. United not by race or religion or by blood, but to our commitment to freedom and justice for all. When we focus on ourselves, when we fight each other, when we forget You, forgive us. When we presume that our greatness and our prosperity is ours alone, forgive us. When we fail to treat our fellow human beings and all the earth with the respect that they deserve, forgive us. And as we face these difficult days ahead, may we have a new birth of clarity in our aims, responsibility in our actions, humility in our approaches and civility in our attitudes -- even when we differ.
Help us to share, to serve and to seek the common good of all. May all people of good will today join together to work for a more just, a more healthy and a more prosperous nation and a peaceful planet. And may we never forget that one day, all nations, all people will stand accountable before You. We now commit our new president and his wife Michelle and his daughters, Malia and Sasha, into your loving care.
I humbly ask this in the name of the one who changed my life -- Yeshua, Esa, Jesus, Jesus -- who taught us to pray: Our Father, who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name. Thy kingdom come, thy will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. And lead us not into temptation but deliver us from evil, for thine is the kingdom and the power and the glory forever. Amen.
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God of our fathers, whose Almighty hand
Leads forth in beauty all the starry band
Of shining worlds in splendor through the skies,
Our grateful songs before Thy throne arise.
Thy love divine hath led us in the past.
In this free land by Thee our lot is cast.
Be Thou our Ruler, Guardian, Guide, and Stay,
Thy word our law, Thy paths our chosen way.
From war's alarms, from deadly pestilence,
Be Thy strong arm our ever sure defense.
Thy true religion in our hearts increase;
Thy bounteous goodness nourish us in peace.
Refresh Thy people on their toilsome way.
Lead us from night to never ending day.
Fill all our lives with love and grace divine;
And glory, laud, and praise be ever Thine.
God Of Our Fathers
Roberts, Daniel C. / Warren, George© Public Domain