Wednesday, July 18, 2012

God can’t love me! If He did, He would make me happy


The surrender of Self, submission to the will of God, is the key issue of the Christian life. “She wants to have her cake and eat it, too” he said to me through tears.  His wife is convinced that having an open marriage is the key to her happiness. She wants to discard what she knows of the Scripture.  She is convinced that living for the Lord will steal her happiness.  A wife and mother struggling to find joy in the mundane work of her household finds herself tested by acceptance of her place.  So does the powerful executive who faces the choice to use his influence to build his own kingdom or God’s.  Will Jesus or Self be Lord, is the question faced by a teenager feeling the pull of his hormones and yet knowing the command of God about his sexuality.  A man trying to balance his budget sees the tithe (10% belonging to God) and must decide to give it or keep it. The test of submission comes to us all!

Behind the question, self or God, is faith. Choosing our own will often offers the most immediate reward. Walking God’s path, while yielding present joys, focuses primarily on things as yet unseen, on rewards anticipated only by promises! "What is faith? It is the confident assurance that what we hope for is going to happen. It is the evidence of things we cannot yet see … So, you see, it is impossible to please God without faith. Anyone who wants to come to him must believe that there is a God and that he rewards those who sincerely seek him. … It was by faith that Abraham obeyed when God called him to leave home and go to another land that God would give him as his inheritance. He went without knowing where he was going. And even when he reached the land God promised him, he lived there by faith—for he was like a foreigner, living in a tent. And so did Isaac and Jacob, to whom God gave the same promise. Abraham did this because he was confidently looking forward to a city with eternal foundations, a city designed and built by God." (Hebrews 11:1, 6, 8-10, NLT)

Here’s the paradox.  We do not will ourselves to believe, nor do we create faith by commanding ourselves – “Believe!”  Faith is the gift of God, given to us at the point of our desperation. Like that young father who saw his tormented son and was nearly overwhelmed by the impossibility of his condition, we cry out, “Lord, help my unbelief!” (Mark 9:24)  There is no need to make ourselves pretty, to pretend to be other than we are, when we rush into the Father’s Presence.  We take our conflicted self and lay it before Him, confessing what we want, who we are, the terrible pull of our temptation.  And, there we receive the gift of faith to give ourselves away. Only then can we find the joy that is possible when Self dies.

Have you started to believe the devil’s life that God is mean, that He takes away happiness, that He crushes the life out of His people? Tell Him that!  Then, wait for the rise of the Spirit, the birth of new faith which enables the choice of submission to Him.  I promise (based on His Word, not my experience alone) that joy will come.  It most likely will be a joy you cannot even conceive at the moment of the testing.

Here is the word from the Word. May the Lord use it to plant a new seed in our minds and hearts from which strong faith grows. “Since, then, you have been raised with Christ, set your hearts on things above, where Christ is seated at the right hand of God. Set your minds on things above, not on earthly things. For you died, and your life is now hidden with Christ in God." (Colossians 3:1-3, NIV) "Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices" (Colossians 3:9, NIV)  "Therefore, as God’s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you." (Colossians 3:12-13, NIV)  "And whatever you do, whether in word or deed, do it all in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him." (Colossians 3:17, NIV)
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Treasures

One by one He took them from me,
All the things I valued most,
Until I was empty-handed;
Every glittering toy was lost.

And I walked earth's highways, grieving.
In my rags and poverty.
Till I heard His voice inviting,
"Lift your empty hands to Me!"

So I held my hands toward heaven,
And He filled them with a store
Of His own transcendent riches,
Till they could contain no more.

And at last I comprehended
With my stupid mind and dull,
That God COULD not pour His riches
Into hands already full!

--Martha Snell Nicholson

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