Friday, December 23, 2011

Use Your Gifts UNSELFISHLY


There are beautifully wrapped gifts under our Christmas tree. We look at them and our boys wonder which ones are for whom. (Bev uses a number code so the recipient is unknown until Christmas morning.) Until we distribute, unwrap, assemble, and take them into our hands they are just for show! About 48 hours from now, they will become useful to us. I hope that they will be useful for other people, too.

God has resourced you, too. Are you taking the gifts He provides and using them to make this world a better place? Are you Christ-focused in their use? The Word says, "The end of the world is coming soon. Therefore, be earnest and disciplined in your prayers. Most important of all, continue to show deep love for each other, for love covers a multitude of sins. Cheerfully share your home with those who need a meal or a place to stay. God has given each of you a gift from his great variety of spiritual gifts. Use them well to serve one another." (1 Peter 4:7-10, NLT)  Broaden your understanding of the concept of a ‘spiritual gift.’ As this passage teaches, gifts include more than preaching, singing, or praying in an unknown tongue!  Buying a friend a cup of coffee can become a spiritual gift, if it is an occasion to encourage her in the things of the Lord. Serving a meal to family can be an occasion of spiritual ministry, too.

Recently the Lord has called me to give gifts of love with no hope of reciprocal effort, to provide and serve without expectation of a word of thanks. I am surprised at how difficult it can be to offer myself to those who feel so entitled that they believe what I do for them is unworthy of any appreciation. My own self love has been revealed to me! Had you asked me a year ago if I were a selfish person, I would have denied it. Now I know better and I realize, in a much deeper way, how much I need the Cross to bring death to Self so that I will offer my gifts with joy and with focus on His reward rather than the thanks of those I ‘serve.’  The Holy Spirit has shown me that gifts offered with even a small influence of Self are quickly corrupted. Our service, if touched with the smallest bit of self-interest, becomes manipulative or even an occasion for bitterness when the expectations we attach to it go unrealized.

In this Season of gifts and giving, I want to encourage you to think of what you receive (from God and others) as resources for service, not simply as things to enrich yourself. “God has given each of you a gift… use it well!”  And, I urge you to submit your service to Him, first! Ask for a pure heart, for a willingness to operate in secret, joyful in the work, not seeking reward or recognition. Is this not how Jesus served us? How humbling to realize that He loved and served us when we were ignoring and offending Him!

I offer this benediction to you today, as this will be my last CoffeeBreak column until the New Year. Thank you for giving me the privilege of sharing my thoughts and His Word with you each day. Receive this word from the Word and live in the promise of spiritual power it contains.

"I kneel before the Father, from whom his whole family in heaven and on earth derives its name. I pray that out of his glorious riches he may strengthen you with power through his Spirit in your inner being, so that Christ may dwell in your hearts through faith. And I pray that you, being rooted and established in love, may have power, together with all the saints, to grasp how wide and long and high and deep is the love of Christ, and to know this love that surpasses knowledge—that you may be filled to the measure of all the fullness of God. Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen."

(Ephesians 3:14-21, NIV)

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