Wednesday, December 22, 2021

Come on in!

 

 


Hospitality. What do you think of when you hear that word? I think of a home where guests are welcomed, where there is a warmth that makes them feel ‘at home.’  Over the years my experience of ‘hospitality’ has varied. Sometimes there are elaborate preparations but no personal welcome so it feels like being entertained rather than welcomed. How wonderful to be met with a real smile, invited in to sense that the hosts really mean it when they say “make yourself comfortable.”  There I find myself leaning back on the couch, settling in, and kicking off my shoes.

Today, we will go to the familiar text in Luke for our thought but first I want to ask –
Does the Lord Jesus find you hospitable and welcoming? 
Is He ‘at home’ in your life?

"So Joseph also went up from the town of Nazareth in Galilee to Judea, to Bethlehem the town of David, because he belonged to the house and line of David. He went there to register with Mary, who was pledged to be married to him and was expecting a child. While they were there, the time came for the baby to be born, and she gave birth to her firstborn, a son. She wrapped him in cloths and placed him in a manger, because there was no room for them in the inn." (Luke 2:4-7, NIV)  No room! Apparently nobody felt much hospitality in that inn, nobody who said, “Let the pregnant lady take my place here.” She was invisible, a nobody, unwelcomed. The Son of God entered the world without human welcome or warmth.

Hospitality requires intention and focus. When I feel that warm welcome to another’s home it is because they have taken time to think about me, not only to prepare their home, but to open their hearts. Real hospitality can create new relationships, extending our family connections beyond those created by shared DNA! 

Remember this - one does not have to openly reject another to fail at being hospitable!  Sometimes the failure results from distraction or issues that are going on under the surface. I have been invited to dinner and arrived to feel a ‘chill’ in the air only to realize that it’s not about me.  The hosts had a fight prior to my arrival and the emotions are still there.  When Joseph and Mary showed up in Bethlehem there was no hostility, just apathy. It seems that nobody really took notice, because they were just taken up with their own ‘stuff.’

As we celebrate the Incarnation, God come to us in flesh, let’s prepare Him room!  Let’s be intentional in our worship, focused on opening our hearts and minds to His Presence, ready to set aside our agenda and our needs to say “Come in, Jesus, and make Yourself at home in my life.”   

When invited to dinner I would much prefer a simple meal with a warm welcome over an elaborate feast with no real intimacy.  He, too, does not look for us to make a big ‘fuss’ or go through all kinds of ritual. He comes to those who desire to know Him. John writes "He was in the world, and though the world was made through him, the world did not recognize him. He came to that which was his own, but his own did not receive him. Yet to all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God—" (John 1:10-12, NIV)   

Did you see what results from recognizing Him, receiving Him in faith, making room for Him? 

He changes our identity, restores us to our place in God’s eternal family. 

Let’s make time to worship.
Let’s step out of the hustle of the holidays to meditate on His love
Let’s engage ourselves with God, the Holy Spirit, welcoming His Presence.  
Give Jesus room today.

The word from the Word is a promise for those who will open themselves up to the Presence of God.
"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock.
If anyone hears my voice and opens the door,
I will come in and eat with him, and he with me.
To him who overcomes, I will give the right to sit with me on my throne,
just as I overcame and sat down with my Father on his throne."
(Revelation 3:20-21, NIV)   Amen!

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No Room

(a real old one but a good one!)

No room only a manger of hay
No room He is a stranger today
No room here in His world turned away
No room no room

Angels in heaven up yonder
Watch with amazement and wonder
To see the Son of the Highest treated so
No room no room no room

No room here in the hearts of mankind
No room no cheery welcome could find
No room surely the world is blind
No room no room no room

No room only a manger of hay
No room He is a stranger today
No room here in His world turned away
No room no room no room

John W. Peterson © 1958. Renewed 1986 John W. Peterson Music Company

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Monday, December 20, 2021

What kind of love?

 

 

In the 4th week of Advent, we meditate on Love.  Love is “a many-splendored thing,” isn’t it?  Love intoxicates us. A dinner with love is a feast. A song shared in love makes our heart beat faster. A beautiful vista shared with one we love becomes a thing of delight. The warmth of a loving embrace will linger for a day. Oh, you’re right. I’m writing about romantic love. That is not the same love that we celebrate this week, is it? True enough, but the love we find in God’s gift makes us capable of the best kind of love in this world, right here, right now.

Christian, to quote an old song, “what the world needs now is love … not just for some, but for everyone.” (Burt Bacharach)  Being loved by God and loving Him in return cannot be without a human dimension. Religion that does not move us to love in this world is empty and faulty.  Christians must be great lovers because they are deeply loved.

One of the best books I have ever read on the subject of love is titled, Bold Love (NavPress, 1993) written by Dr. Dan Allender.  The author lifted me beyond the incomplete ideas of love that is founded on desire or ‘compatibility,’ to realize that love is a choice, a sustained effort, a way of life. "There is an enormous drive in the fallen human personality that impedes the process of learning to love and an equally powerful force outside of every person that labors to destroy every effort to love. ... Complacency and presumption work hand-in-hand to blind even Christians to the importance of love and inherent battle involved in learning to love. IF we are to learn to love, we must begin with an acknowledgment that love is not natural and that love's failure is not easy to admit."

This week in Advent we can think newly of an ancient love, meditating on a Baby’s birth, and thus finding renewal in the love of God!  And it will be a transformative experience.  Indeed, they Word declares - "We love each other because he loved us first." (1 John 4:19, NLT)  In this world where Evil is real, where sin is persistent, where hate is strong, we cannot allow ourselves to be naïve, to believe that all the suffering and wrong results merely from people who act in ways that are  ‘mistaken’ or because they are ‘confused.’  Yes, many of us are those things, garden variety sinners, but evil lurks in the hearts of people and causes us to do terrible things to others.  

God loves us to life and asks us to respond in a way that does not simply involve self-interest or our own comfort.  Jesus, God come to us in love, demonstrates a radical response to an evil world. As a person filled with His Spirit I am to be known for a quality of love that includes a deep reservoir of forgiveness, that acts against evil, that includes the ‘unlovely,’ that seeks the best for others. It is a BOLD LOVE! 

What does that love look like?

First, that kind of love is beyond mere sentiment and is more than benign indifference! It is active in pursuit of life and beauty.

It comes from a deep work of the Holy Spirit, from a solid foundation of God's love in our own life first. "We love," John says, "because He loved us first." There is no way I will consistently choose to turn the other cheek, no way that I will pursue the well-being of a person I believe hates me, if I am not fully convinced that God is my refuge, my fortress, and my loving Father who cares for me. It is almost impossible to boldly love an evil person with an active love that overcomes their wickedness unless we are held securely in faith, the wisdom of the Word planted deeply in our mind and heart. Before we can give grace, we must know grace.

Second, bold love is not needy.

Much of what passes for 'love' in our world is nothing more than an expression of our need to own another's affection. Healthy love that Jesus desires in us is not shaped around our emotional desire to be liked!  A codependent person will continue to let others abuse and mistreat them in one-sided relationships. That leads to pitiful situations where things go from bad to worse. The kind of love that overcomes evil has little to do with our own needs. It has everything to do with meeting the other person's need. Jesus did not need to become our Savior to fill an emotional need in Himself. He is God, self-sufficient in every way. He chose to love us because He knew we were lost. He moved strategically to bring about change.  Is your love both wise and tender?

Third, bold love is hopeful!

Jesus' love as the model in this, too. Our aim in loving those who are mean, cruel, or abusive is to lead them to the Savior, to call them to wholeness and transformation.  He sees the person who is sinning, who is resisting God's ways, and He loves. Likewise, we love others with prayerful hope that persistent love will overcome and sow the seeds of change in their heart and mind. Radical love is costly and those who choose to love like Jesus will pay a high price. From our place in time, it often looks like evil wins over goodness. But, we, by faith, continue to live in love and trust that the Eternal One, Who is working deeply in us and through us will triumph by His love.

Pray to know love and to live in love. This is the very heart of the Christmas story.

The word from the Word. "Dear friends, let us love one another, for love comes from God. Everyone who loves has been born of God and knows God. Whoever does not love does not know God, because God is love. This is how God showed his love among us: He sent his one and only Son into the world that we might live through him. This is love: not that we loved God, but that he loved us and sent his Son as an atoning sacrifice for our sins. Dear friends, since God so loved us, we also ought to love one another. No one has ever seen God; but if we love one another, God lives in us and his love is made complete in us." (1 John 4:7-12, NIV)

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Love Came Down At Christmas

Love came down at Christmas
Love Incarnate Love divine
Love was born at Christmas
Star and angels gave the sign

Immanuel, our God comes
Immanuel, our Hope, our Trust

So worship we the God-head
Love divine
Worship we our Jesus
In this holy time

For love shall be our token
Love be yours and love be mine
Love to God and neighbor

Immanuel, our God with us
Immanuel, our Hope, our Trust

Love shall be our sign
Love came down

 

Christina Georgina Rossetti | Stan Pethel

© Words: Public Domain

Friday, December 17, 2021

This is why you are alive

 

As we begin this ordinary day most likely we are focused on just ‘getting things done,’  going to work, earning a living, tending to the needs of our body, communicating with others. And underneath it all, every now and then, the question comes to us – “But, why?”  We may not even ask it consciously, but we do try to answer that longing for meaning in many different ways. 

Some are achievers, constantly pushing for the next award, a bigger office, some mark of success. Others look for pleasure – seeking that perfect meal, planning for a vacation. Others accumulate ‘stuff,’ building their investment accounts, buying an impressive vehicle, getting a larger home.  Will an award, a moment of pleasure, another possession satisfy us?  Truthfully, no. Though we might find momentary happiness in those things, eventually they will lose their luster and leave us hungering for more.

Peter, inspired by the Holy Spirit, tells us that no matter our status, regardless of our situation, we can know purpose - "In this you greatly rejoice, though now for a little while you may have had to suffer grief in all kinds of trials. These have come so that your faith—of greater worth than gold, which perishes even though refined by fire—may be proved genuine and may result in praise, glory and honor when Jesus Christ is revealed." (1 Peter 1:6-7, NIV)   I live, as do you, to give praise, glory, and honor to God.

Understanding those words requires a radical shift in perspective in life. Instead of being focused on ‘what makes me happy,’ those who want to glorify God must give themselves away and choose to live outwardly focused. Jesus said it simply – ”‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ This is the first and greatest commandment. And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’" (Matthew 22:37-39, NIV)  This is a difficult concept for us, trained as we  are from our childhood to seek self-fulfillment.  We are deeply committed, even if unconsciously, to a radical individualism.

Jesus’ call to surrender and humility makes the Gospel all but incomprehensible to many people. They hear the words but the concept seems foolish. “How could I possibly be a happy person if I chose to live with less, to readily forgive others, to seek the good of others over my own desires, if I live as a ‘servant?’  I am a follower of Jesus for more than a half century and still find myself questioning that call.  My natural impulse is to care for Jerry. The appeal of ‘doing my own thing’ and building my own little kingdom is still present in me! That is why I need a Savior, One who will give me grace, who will lead me to life, Whose Spirit will live in me to reveal the way to life eternal. I hasten to add that when I willingly and humbly respond to His invitation to love and serve, I do find amazing joy and sense God’s purpose for my life. 

As we approach the celebration of the Incarnation, remembering that God came to us, a Baby born in an animal shelter, identifying Himself with the least and the low, may we turn to Him and receive the life of the Spirit. Let’s pray for faith to accept Him, to let the Spirit change us from the inside out.  And, as we love Him and others, we will discover the promise that Jesus made – “life more abundant!”  (John 10.10)

The word from the Word is one of those passages in the Scripture that is familiar. Step beyond the familiarity today and meditate on the invitation. Ask God to turn you around, to give you eyes to see His purpose and plan, that you might live in His joy.   Here it is –

"Your attitude should be the same that Christ Jesus had.
Though he was God, he did not demand and cling to his rights as God.
He made himself nothing; he took the humble position of a slave and appeared in human form.
And in human form he obediently humbled himself even further by dying a criminal’s death on a cross.

Because of this, God raised him up to the heights of heaven
and gave him a name that is above every other name,
so that at the name of Jesus every knee will bow,

in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
and every tongue will confess that Jesus Christ is Lord,

to the glory of God the Father."
(Philippians 2:5-11, NLT)

Lord, teach us to live to give You praise, glory, and honor and so find the purpose for which You made us.  Amen

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O Come All Ye Faithful

O come all ye faithful
Joyful and triumphant
O come ye O come ye to Bethlehem
Come and behold Him
Born the King of angels

O come let us adore Him
O come let us adore Him
O come let us adore Him
Christ the Lord

Sing choirs of angels
Sing in exultation
O sing all ye citizens of heav'n above
Glory to God
All glory in the highest

Christ the Lord
You are the Lord

Yea Lord we greet Thee
Born this happy morning
Jesus to Thee be all glory giv'n
Word of the Father
Now in flesh appearing

You are the Lord
You are the Lord
You are the Lord
Yeah

We'll praise Your name forever
We'll praise Your name forever
We'll praise Your name forever
Christ the Lord


Glory in the highest


Chris Tomlin

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