Friday, October 29, 2021

Waiting?

I remember being a kid waiting for Christmas for most of the month of December. Anticipation built steadily. Dreams about what was going to happen on that ‘day’ were a regular occurrence. The wait distracted from school work, although it generally helped to improve behavior.  ‘Good kids’ get better gifts my child’s brain reasoned.  Six years ago I was in a season of excruciatingly painful waiting, watching my wife grow weaker and sicker by the day and knowing that her time on earth was closing.  That wait brought focus, my attention narrowing down to Bev, almost exclusively as I cared for her each hour of everyday. 

And, this year I am again in a time of waiting, figuring out life after retirement!  The rhythm of work in the church that carried me from week to week for decades is gone. Now I wait and wonder what God has next for me even as I enjoy life without deadlines to be met!

I know this: I must continue to live ‘in the moment’ even while anticipating the future. “Be present!”   Choosing to be engaged, to do what needs to be done today, is critically important to life’s enjoyment, to being a person of rich relationships.  If we are completely focused on tomorrow’s anticipated developments the opportunities of the moment will pass unrealized.  

God, through inspiration of Paul’s writing, teaches Christians about living in that tension between today and tomorrow.  He says to us "For the grace of God that brings salvation has appeared to all men. It teaches us to say “No” to ungodliness and worldly passions, and to live self-controlled, upright and godly lives in this present age, while we wait for the blessed hope—the glorious appearing of our great God and Savior, Jesus Christ." (Titus 2:11-13, NIV)

The great hope of the Christian is the revelation of the Kingdom of Christ Jesus. He promised to return and to replace the Curse with Blessings beyond our wildest dreams. I choked with emotion this morning as I read these words from the Revelation: "And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Now the dwelling of God is with men, and he will live with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.”" (Revelation 21:3-5, NIV)  War, famine, cancer, disease, aging, and even death itself will be gone – ‘the old order’ the former way of life replaced with the perfection of Christ!

My dear friend, we must not allow this hope to be obscured by the business of the day. We cannot forget to pray, as Jesus taught, ‘may Your kingdom come, Your will be done on earth as it is in Heaven.’   That hope, the Word says, gives us reason to reject selfishness, short-sighted choices for momentary pleasures that actually bring regret.  We say “No” to ungodliness because we wait in faith.  We do not retreat into our holy huddle isolated from the world in which we live. We do not stop living as children of God here and now, doing the work of God, because we are hopeful.  The Bible says that the powerful hope of eternal life and the King’s return will cause us to live our best life now.

Jesus told a story about anticipation and forgetfulness. We read it in Matthew’s Gospel, chapter 25.  A master was getting ready to go on a long trip so he called three of his household workers in and gave them care of his estate.  To one he gave 5 units, to another 2 units, and to another just 1 unit.  The first two, in anticipation of the master’s return, diligently used the trusted resources and doubled them!  Both received the same commendation - "‘Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!’" (Matthew 25:21, NIV)  The other took what he was given and buried it!  He failed to anticipate the day of accounting and the possibility of reward.  When he was called before the master at his return, he offered excuses and was thrown out of the household called a ’wicked, lazy servant!’

 Let’s pray to remember the Promised Return of the King! For some of us, we will meet Him when we transit the valley of death into eternal life. For others, He will arrive as the King of Kings, bringing His kingdom to earth. Either way, I intend to live to hear ‘Well done, good and faithful servant!’  How about you?

 Here is a word from the Word. May God encourage us to choose wisely and best in the light of His return. "For God is not unfair. He will not forget how hard you have worked for him and how you have shown your love to him by caring for other Christians, as you still do. Our great desire is that you will keep right on loving others as long as life lasts, in order to make certain that what you hope for will come true. Then you will not become spiritually dull and indifferent. Instead, you will follow the example of those who are going to inherit God’s promises because of their faith and patience." (Hebrews 6:10-12, NLT)  Amen!

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 O Come O Come Emmanuel

O come O come Emmanuel
And ransom captive Israel
That mourns in lonely exile here
Until the Son of God appear

Rejoice rejoice Emmanuel
Shall come to thee O Israel

O come Thou Dayspring come and cheer
Our spirits by Thine advent here
Disperse the gloomy clouds of night
And death's dark shadows put to flight

O come Thou Key of David come
And open wide our heavn’ly home
Make safe the way that leads on high
And close the door to misery

O come Thou Wisdom from on high
And order all things far and nigh
To us the path of knowledge show
And cause us in her ways to go

O come Desire of nations bind
All peoples in one heart and mind
Bid envy strife and quarrels cease
Fill the whole world with heaven's peace

 

Words: Public Domain

 

Wednesday, October 27, 2021

Am I ‘good enough?’

 

Perfectionism is a curse.  It drives a person to set impossibly high standards. It robs the one who experiences it of satisfaction in a ‘job well done’ because that person focuses instead on the question -  “Could I have done this better?  Perfectionists become anxious and frequently turn into nasty critics of others!  Over time, perfectionists turn on themselves, self-critical, lonely, and isolated in a rigidity that will not allow them to accept others who fail to meet their unrealistic expectations.

Yes, we do tend to love ‘perfect’ don’t we? Who wouldn’t like to have an ideal body type,  a family that is without dysfunction, a life without flaws and failure?  One author writes – “Perfection creates unhelpful expectations about what life should be. Some of us have conjured up immaculate visions of the perfect marriage, the perfect job or even the perfect Saturday—images that only exist on your Pinterest board. The reality is, nothing in our lives can ever be 100% perfect. Only in your wildest dreams.”  (Relevant, Rachel Moreland)

Defeating perfectionism requires a shift in perspective, from comparison to others to understanding your own abilities and determining to do what you are able to do best. It also requires developing a sense of what is ideal and what is possible.  Sometimes focusing on that last tiny bit of detail – “It just has to be perfect” -  actually hinders productivity. It is important to know when it is time to say ‘finished,’ and move on to the next task.

So why am I thinking about this today?  

Because many people drag a form of perfectionism into their Christianity!  They become deceived about the reality of knowing and loving God, tricked into thinking that the only way to be loved by Him, to be acceptable in His sight, is to become perfect. Perhaps you are running ahead and wondering, “But, Jerry, doesn’t the Bible tell us to be perfect?” 

There are many passages that teach us to be perfect, but not in the sense in which we tend to understand the word.  We read ‘flawless’ where we see that word instead of what is actually meant which is to be ‘complete.   When we strive for flawless perfection we end our day with self-condemning thoughts and a sense of failure.  “Why did I say that?”  “How could a real Christian think a thought like that?”  The joy of the Lord is lost to fear and self-loathing!

Here is the truth about belonging to God and living in His love. It is first a gift of grace and a response of faith!  In the earliest chapters of the Bible we read this - "Abram believed the LORD, and He credited it to him as righteousness." (Genesis 15:6, NIV)  Read the story of that man again. He was far from flawless.  He lied. He made some poor choices. He let fear overwhelm him.  Yes, he did some amazing things, too. He followed God’s call. He offered up his beloved son and discovered that God was the Provider. But, at the heart of his story (and ours!) is the fact that his relationship with God was not based on  ‘perfect’ performance. It was from faith, first to last.

Paul, in the letter to the Romans, explores Abraham’s faith in depth. Inspired by the Spirit, he teaches us that "because of Abraham’s faith, God declared him to be righteous. Now this wonderful truth—that God declared him to be righteous—wasn’t just for Abraham’s benefit. It was for us, too, assuring us that God will also declare us to be righteous if we believe in God, who brought Jesus our Lord back from the dead. He was handed over to die because of our sins, and he was raised from the dead to make us right with God." (Romans 4:22-25, NLT)

When we trust Christ, believing that His gift of salvation is complete in us, our perfectionistic impulse is defeated and we learn to love Him more deeply. The grip that religious fear holds over us, driving us to try to hide our true selves from God is broken and we experience what John describes. "In this way, love is made complete among us so that we will have confidence on the day of judgment, because in this world we are like him. There is no fear in love. But perfect (God’s flawless) love drives out fear, because fear has to do with punishment. The one who fears is not made perfect (complete) in love. We love because he first loved us." (1 John 4:17-19, NIV)  The paradox of holiness is that we cannot achieve it by our own effort but we can become holy the grace and power of the Holy Spirit who lives in us!

Are you cursed by perfectionism?  Confess it to God, admit it to yourself.  Turn around and look again on the wonderful Cross, the enduring evidence of God’s amazing grace and the ‘truth will set you free.’

Here is the word from the Word. "So, dear brothers and sisters, you have no obligation whatsoever to do what your sinful nature urges you to do. For if you keep on following it, you will perish. But if through the power of the Holy Spirit you turn from it and its evil deeds, you will live. For all who are led by the Spirit of God are children of God. So you should not be like cowering, fearful slaves. You should behave instead like God’s very own children, adopted into his family—calling him “Father, dear Father.” For his Holy Spirit speaks to us deep in our hearts and tells us that we are God’s children." (Romans 8:12-16, NLT)

Be free, all He has made you to be.

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Graves Into Gardens

I searched the world but it couldn't fill me
Man's empty praise and treasures that fade
Are never enough
Then You came along and put me back together
And every desire is now satisfied here in Your love

Oh there's nothing better than You
There's nothing better than You
Lord there's nothing
Nothing is better than You

I'm not afraid to show You my weakness
My failures and flaws
Lord You've seen them all
And You still call me friend

'Cause the God of the mountain
Is the God of the valley
And there's not a place
Your mercy and grace won't find me again

You turn mourning to dancing
You give beauty for ashes
You turn shame into glory
You're the only one who can

You turn graves into gardens
You turn bones into armies
You turn seas into highways
You're the only one who can

Brandon Lake | Chris Brown | Steven Furtick | Tiffany Hudson

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Monday, October 25, 2021

Influencers

 

The world has a new kind of sales force – influencers! People with a large number of followers on social media platforms use their popularity to influence others to purchase products that the influencer is paid to promote, often by demonstrating her own experience with the product.  It’s big business worldwide.  You don’t have to have a million followers on Instagram to be an influencer. You know that, don’t you?  I was reminded of that fact in church yesterday.

Jackson, the 9 year old son of our pastor, has befriended me since my retiring and we sit together in church.  Yesterday, during our congregational worship, I stood singing joyfully and worshipfully, eyes closed. Then I heard a little voice raised in praise next to me. I looked over and Jack was singing with enthusiasm, his stance very much a copy of my own. My actions influenced him.  

 It reminded me of another little boy who taught me about the power of example. Nathan is not so little anymore. He celebrated his 14th birthday yesterday.  In 2009, when he was a toddler he and I sat together in the church café and he mimicked my actions.  Back then, I prayed for the opportunity to be a good example to him and today that young man’s life brings me great joy!

Indulge me one more example of this today. Watching the post-game commentators yesterday discuss the amazing abilities of Tom Brady, I heard them say – “He makes everyone around him better – players and coaches alike! That was a wow moment for me. One man using his abilities and focusing on excellence made an entire team perform at a higher level.  It challenged me. I aspire to lift the people around me to higher things, to make a ‘measurable difference for the Kingdom of God.’

You will influence others today!
What kind of influence will it be?  Will you lift others, with encouraging words, with an example of excellence, with faith? Will even your casual encounters with others have a positive effect?

Paul taught us about influence. He wrote to the Corinthians that their lives were an unforgettable fragrance. The Spirit of God in them made them unique, a reminder of life to those who lived in faith and death to those who rejected the love of God. 

Jesus uses a plain metaphor for our influence. He says “You are the salt of the earth. But if the salt loses its saltiness, how can it be made salty again? It is no longer good for anything, except to be thrown out and trampled by men. “You are the light of the world. A city on a hill cannot be hidden. Neither do people light a lamp and put it under a bowl. Instead they put it on its stand, and it gives light to everyone in the house. 

In the same way, let your light shine before men, that they may see your good deeds and praise your Father in heaven. “Do not think that I have come to abolish the Law or the Prophets; I have not come to abolish them but to fulfill them." (Matthew 5:13-17, NIV)  Salt was then a prime preservative, extremely valuable.  It kept food supplies from rot!  We, when we are filled with God’s Spirit, keep the rottenness of the world at bay.  Light dispels darkness revealing the truth. Our lives are to be full of that light. And, when we are light-bearers, others will see God.

So, today, pray to be an influencers for Christ Jesus. You cannot do this from your own strength.  You and I are not big enough, smart enough, or tough enough to lead others to Christ on our own, but when we invite the Spirit to live in us, when we present ourselves to Him, He will change us and shine through us. Let’s do it, for God’s sake.

Here is a word from the Word.  I pray it is a challenge you will receive with full faith. "Command and teach these things. … Be diligent in these matters; give yourself wholly to them, so that everyone may see your progress. Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers." (1 Timothy 4:15-16, NIV)

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Shine, Jesus, Shine
(This is the prayer of my heart)

Lord the light of Your love is shining

In the midst of the darkness shining

Jesus Light of the world shine upon us

Set us free by the truth You now bring us

Shine on me shine on me

 

Shine Jesus shine

Fill this land

With the Father's glory

Blaze Spirit blaze

Set our hearts on fire

Flow river flow

Flood the nations

With grace and mercy

Send forth Your word Lord

And let there be light

 

Lord I come to Your awesome presence

From the shadows into Your radiance

By the blood I may enter Your brightness

Search me try me consume all my darkness

Shine on me shine on me

 

As we gaze on Your kingly brightness

So our faces display Your likeness

Ever changing from glory to glory

Mirrored here may our lives tell Your story

Shine on me shine on me

 

Graham Kendrick

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