Friday, January 16, 2009

Thank God for your pain- then do something about it!

The man talking to me was hurting- obviously. He wasn’t sobbing, but his voice would catch in his throat and his eyes would fill up and spill over, again and again. “What’s with this place?” he asked. “I come here and I start crying! It’s not what I want to do.” To me, his tears showed two things: that God’s Presence that he sensed in the church made him feel safe enough to cry and that he was in terrible pain inside, a pain he usually could not or would not let himself acknowledge.

Do you know that pain is a gift? It is a signal that something is wrong, that corrective action is necessary. Touch a hot surface and instantly you hand pulls away as nerves flash a pain signal to your brain that causes you to react. Without the pain, your hand would be severely damaged, wouldn’t it? The ache of the soul is a signal, too. What does it mean? It might be God calling us to return to Him. It might be signaling guilt. It might be signaling longing for purpose and/or meaning. It might be telling us that we are not living for the right things, wasting precious days. It could be signaling depression that needs to be treated, or unresolved conflicts from long ago!

Too often we treat the pain symptom instead of the cause of it. Our medicine cabinets are full of chemicals that mask our pain – Advil, Bayer, Aleve. None of these are healers! They just temporarily turn off the pain signal. That’s not all bad if we take steps to deal with the issue that causes us pain at the same time. Tragically there are things that many use to mask the pain in their hearts, too. Alcohol, pleasure, sex, pornography, buying things, anger – the list is long.

Jesus says, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls." (Matthew 11:28-29, NLT) Don’t be too quick to dismiss that prescription! Regular times of corporate worship with God’s people, quiet times of reflective prayer, and daily handing over of our cares and concerns really is amazingly healing. The Spirit of God will lead us to forgive, will call us to repentance, will help us sort out the junk from the treasure – but only IF we are in a place where we can hear Him speak.

As with most healing, the pain of our soul is seldom relieved in an instant. Rather, God heals us from the inside out as we learn to live in ways that are spiritually healthy. Here’s a word from the Word. Read it thoughtfully, prayerfully today. There’s a lot of soul food in it!

"Humble yourselves, therefore, under God’s mighty hand, that he may lift you up in due time. Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you.
Be self-controlled and alert.

Your enemy the devil prowls around like a roaring lion looking for someone to devour. Resist him, standing firm in the faith, because you know that your brothers throughout the world are undergoing the same kind of sufferings.


And the God of all grace, who called you to his eternal glory in Christ, after you have suffered a little while, will himself restore you and make you strong, firm and steadfast."
-1 Peter 5:6-10, NIV
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What a Friend we have in Jesus,
All our sins and griefs to bear!
What a privilege to carry,
Everything to God in prayer!
Oh, what peace we often forfeit,
Oh, what needless pain we bear.
All because we do not carry
Everything to God in prayer!

Have we trials and temptations?
Is there trouble anywhere?
We should never be discouraged;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.
Can we find a friend so faithful,
Who will all our sorrows share?
Jesus knows our every weakness;
Take it to the Lord in prayer.

What A Friend We Have In Jesus

Scriven, Joseph M. / Converse, Charles C.
© Public Domain

Thursday, January 15, 2009

Steady hands

One of the character traits I highly value is steadiness. I want to be the kind of man who does what he does with quality and in a consistent manner. No one should have to question, ‘can we rely on Jerry today?’ The Bible calls this trait faithfulness and God desires to see it in us. He entrusts us with the treasure of Christ and says " it is required that those who have been given a trust must prove faithful." (1 Corinthians 4:2, NIV) Few things bring more disgrace to Christ than those who claim to be passionately committed to Him one day and apathetic towards Him the next! "Curses and blessings out of the same mouth! My friends, this can’t go on. A spring doesn’t gush fresh water one day and brackish the next, does it?” (James 3:10-11, The Message)

Faithfulness grows out of disciplined decisions. One does not live recklessly for years and suddenly become the model of steadiness! Faithfulness grows out of making the choice, again and again, to do the right thing- not the easy thing, not the convenient thing, not the fun thing – but the right thing. A child who is taught to do the little things on time and with quality will most likely grow into an adult who is capable of pushing through tough days faithfully! Jesus told a story about three men given a trust, each according to his abilities. The master inspected their work and commended two who were faithful by saying, “Well done, good and faithful servant! You have been faithful with a few things; I will put you in charge of many things. Come and share your master’s happiness!" (Matthew 25:20-21, NIV)

However, faithfulness is not just a matter of discipline. There is a little story in Exodus that reminds us of the importance of companions who keep us steady when Life gets rough. Take a look. "While the people of Israel were still at Rephidim, the warriors of Amalek attacked them. Moses commanded Joshua, “Choose some men to go out and fight the army of Amalek for us. Tomorrow, I will stand at the top of the hill, holding the staff of God in my hand.” So Joshua did what Moses had commanded and fought the army of Amalek. Meanwhile, Moses, Aaron, and Hur climbed to the top of a nearby hill. As long as Moses held up the staff in his hand, the Israelites had the advantage. But whenever he dropped his hand, the Amalekites gained the advantage. Moses’ arms soon became so tired he could no longer hold them up. So Aaron and Hur found a stone for him to sit on. Then they stood on each side of Moses, holding up his hands. So his hands held steady until sunset." (Exodus 17:8-12, NLT) How did Moses keep steady hands? Only with the help of two great friends!

I promise you that days will come when you want to turn from the hard stuff and run away! Some of those days will stretch into months when every morning dawns demanding that you get up and do the right thing. It might be dealing with chronic pain, loving a difficult person, working for an idiot boss, or wrestling with some inner temptation. Stay steady. Don’t quit. When you think you’re on the edge of collapse, call for support.

Watch out for pride when you’re doing well. One of the larger hazards is blindness to our weakness that overtakes us when we’re on a long run of success. Here’s a warning and promise. May the wisdom of these words keep us faithful.

"Don’t be so naive and self-confident. You’re not exempt. You could fall flat on your face as easily as anyone else. Forget about self-confidence; it’s useless. Cultivate God-confidence. No test or temptation that comes your way is beyond the course of what others have had to face.
All you need to remember is that God will never let you down; he’ll never let you be pushed past your limit; he’ll always be there to help you come through it "
(1 Corinthians 10:12-13, The Message)

Wednesday, January 14, 2009

Blaze bright, God's Light.

Two men who were in their middle 40’s died, both unexpectedly, just two weeks apart. I was asked to conduct their funeral services. The two lives were a study in contrast! One man wasted his life; burning through relationships, drinking heavily, living in a drug-induced fog much of the time, often in jail for petty crimes. The other man invested his life in adventure; created beautiful award winning photographs, gave himself to generously helping others, and loved the Lord Jesus Christ. One lived in darkness, the other in the Light! Only God can judge the eternal destination of each man, but a detective’s skill is not required to discern which one leaves a greater legacy. At one service, the mood was sorrowful regret, an acknowledgment of emptiness. At the other, the sorrow was lightened with hope, the many pleasant memories deeply comforting.

The Bible says "The Word gave life to everything that was created, and his life brought light to everyone. The light shines in the darkness, and the darkness can never extinguish it." (John 1:4-5, NLT) There is a great darkness in the world that reaches out to engulf each one. There are thrills that exist in the obscurity of that dark. They seduce those who turn from the Light.
Cheap sex provides temporary pleasure, but those who indulge give away their dignity.
Various chemicals create a trip into a phony bliss only to show themselves thieves that steals health and vitality.
Wealth rewards to those who work to gain it but soon it owns those who think they possess it and they become slaves of their stuff – guarding it, fixing it, trying desperately to keep it.
Hatred temporarily blocks the sense of loneliness but quickly it turns on the hater and makes him even more alone!

There is a Great Light that shines brightly! He offers real life, genuine hope, lasting joy, and a purposeful existence that never ends. He shows us how to really love, makes forgiveness a reality, and builds a bridge that carries us over the river of death from life to life! John says, "God’s light came into the world, but people loved the darkness more than the light, for their actions were evil. All who do evil hate the light and refuse to go near it for fear their sins will be exposed. But those who do what is right come to the light so others can see that they are doing what God wants.” (John 3:19-21, NLT)

The Scripture urges us to make a choice to live in the Light. When we are wrapped in the Light, He becomes a kind of armor that defends us against the Evil one. Interesting thought, isn’t it? "The night is far spent, the day is at hand. Therefore let us cast off the works of darkness, and let us put on the armor of light. Let us walk properly, as in the day, not in revelry and drunkenness, not in lewdness and lust, not in strife and envy. But put on the Lord Jesus Christ, and make no provision for the flesh, to fulfill its lusts." (Romans 13:12-14, NKJV)

Disciple, pray for the Light to blaze brightly before you; yes even within you. Meditate on this passage and may it’s challenge turn you to Jesus Christ, the Light of the World.
"Don’t waste your time on useless work, mere busywork, the barren pursuits of darkness. Expose these things for the sham they are. It’s a scandal when people waste their lives on things they must do in the darkness where no one will see. Rip the cover off those frauds and see how attractive they look in the light of Christ. Wake up from your sleep, Climb out of your coffins; Christ will show you the light! So watch your step. Use your head. Make the most of every chance you get. These are desperate times! " (Ephesians 5:11-16, The Message)
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One sat alone beside the highway begging,
His eyes were blind, the light he could not see.
He clutched his rags and shivered in the shadows
Then Jesus came and bade his darkness flee. (Mark 10:46-48)

When Jesus comes, the tempter's power is broken;
When Jesus comes, the tears are wiped away,
He takes the gloom and fills the life with glory,
For all is changed when Jesus comes to stay.

So men today have found the Savior able,
They could not conquer passion, lust and sin;
Their broken hearts had left them sad and lonely,
Then Jesus came and dwelt, Himself, within.

When Jesus Comes
Homer Rodehaver

Tuesday, January 13, 2009

Abba’s Wonderful Gifts

A father I knew adopted the drill sergeant as his ideal! His kids addressed him as ‘sir.’ Orders came down that were not to be questioned. In many ways, he was a good father and provider except in the most important way; genuine affection. As much as a person might have admired the efficiency of the household, there also was a chilly sense that nobody was too happy to be there. I often wondered if those kids would exit their Dad’s life when they became adults! My tribe experienced discipline, too. I had no reservations about calling them to account, setting standards, and asking for respect. The core of our home, however, was and is love. Obedience of my children was gained not so much through punishment as it was by setting an example and persuading them to follow. Today, though they range in age from 27 to 32, we are friends and love each other deeply!

Our Heavenly Father is a loving Dad!
Jesus Christ came into this world to show us just how deep the Father’s love really is.
John says, "The Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us. We have seen his glory, the glory of the One and Only, who came from the Father, full of grace and truth. John testifies concerning him. He cries out, saying, “This was he of whom I said, ‘He who comes after me has surpassed me because he was before me.’ ” From the fullness of his grace we have all received one blessing after another. For the law was given through Moses; grace and truth came through Jesus Christ. No one has ever seen God, but God the One and Only, who is at the Father’s side, has made him known." (John 1:14-18, NIV)

Abba’s gifts are grace and truth!

Grace is a rich Biblical word that fills the New Testament. It refers to the kindness of our Father that is shown to us when we are disobedient, rebellious, and resistant to His will. His grace exerts a powerful influence on us, drawing us into His love and causing a transformation of heart and character. Yes, He is a holy God who cannot and will not simply ignore our sins. He has no reluctance to act to discipline us, but He does so for our ultimate good, not our destruction; out of His desire to fill our lives with ‘one blessing after another.’

Truth is also amazing. Our Father refuses to let us remain in the deceptions of the Devil. In the beginning that Liar promised what he could not deliver. Jesus Christ came and demonstrated what life could be when the Truth was loved. He refused the foolish pretensions of superficial religion. He would not play the games that others played to gain wealth, power, or prominence. He was ‘full of truth!’ If we choose to live in the Truth, we will know peace and joy, too.

Receive Abba’s gifts offered in Christ. Here’s a word from the Word for your meditation today.

"This same Good News that came to you is going out all over the world. It is bearing fruit everywhere by changing lives, just as it changed your lives from the day you first heard and understood the truth about God’s wonderful grace. …

So we have not stopped praying for you since we first heard about you. We ask God to give you complete knowledge of his will and to give you spiritual wisdom and understanding. Then the way you live will always honor and please the Lord, and your lives will produce every kind of good fruit. All the while, you will grow as you learn to know God better and better. We also pray that you will be strengthened with all his glorious power so you will have all the endurance and patience you need.

May you be filled with joy, always thanking the Father. He has enabled you to share in the inheritance that belongs to his people, who live in the light. For he has rescued us from the kingdom of darkness and transferred us into the Kingdom of his dear Son, who purchased our freedom and forgave our sins." (Colossians 1:6-14, NLT)
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Sing them over again to me,
Wonderful words of life;
Let me more of their beauty see,
Wonderful words of life;
Words of life and beauty,
Teach me faith and duty:

Christ, the blessed one,
Gives to all,
Wonderful words of life;
Sinner, list to the loving call,
Wonderful words of life;
All so freely given,
Wooing us to heaven:

Sweetly echo the gospel call,
Wonderful words of life;
Offer pardon and peace to all,
Wonderful words of life;
Jesus, only Savior,
Sanctify forever,

Beautiful words, wonderful words,
Wonderful words of Life;
Beautiful words, wonderful words,
Wonderful words of Life.



Wonderful Words of LifePhilip Bliss © Public Domain

Monday, January 12, 2009

Living With Abba

What must it be like to be fatherless? I cannot imagine for from the dawn of my memories, there are father images in my mind. "My Dad..." is a phrase that comes so naturally to me. My earliest recollections are of a big man who took me with him in his car, showing me adventures galore in his work world. When I was about five he seemed like a god, unafraid and powerful. Over time, Dad became more human to me, a real man. Throughout my adult life, I often called him sometimes to ask, "Hi, Dad, what do you think I should do about this?" and other times to seek his affirmation! I am tremendously thankful for the heritage I have from my Dad- setting an example for me about the importance of loving God, the privilege of serving others, and the necessity of living with discipline.

I have a second Father to Whom I was introduced by my Dad! I cannot imagine living without His love, either. My Heavenly Father is a constant Presence, the Source to Whom I turn for daily needs, a Friend for all times, and the One who gives me identity and purpose. He is God and time has only enhanced my love for and reverence of Him. While I enjoy an exclusive relationship with my Dad, the family of God is open. The Scripture says the core reason Jesus Christ came was to bring us home to our Father. "To all who received him, to those who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God- children born not of natural descent, nor of human decision or a husband's will, but born of God." (John 1:12-13, NIV) Later John wrote "How great is the love the Father has lavished on us, that we should be called children of God! And that is what we are!" (1 John 3:1, NIV) Take a few moments to think that over!

Don't live as an orphan. Take your inheritance! "...you have not received a spirit that makes you fearful slaves. Instead, you received God's Spirit when he adopted you as his own children. Now we call him, "Abba, Father." For his Spirit joins with our spirit to affirm that we are God's children. And since we are his children, we are his heirs. In fact, together with Christ we are heirs of God's glory." (Romans 8:15-17, NLT) That passage reminds us that the relationship that we are privileged to know is full of love, that God is not just Father to us. He is also "Abba" which is an Aramaic expression of familiarity. He is our Papa, our Daddy!

Are you facing a tough week? Don't go it alone. Reach out to your Daddy!
Not sure what to do? Ask your Daddy to give you His wisdom!
Celebrating a success? Share it with your Daddy!

A loving earthly father enjoys his children. (I know that well, for my Dad loves when I spend time with him and I love those all too few days in the year when my own children come home.) The Father loves us to worship and adore Him. I urge you not to let the pressures of the day, the many responsibilities of your life, draw you away from time with your Dad!

Take this passage with you today. Meditate on it and live in the great Truth declared by it. "Everyone who believes that Jesus is the Christ has become a child of God. And everyone who loves the Father loves his children, too.We know we love God's children if we love God and obey his commandments. Loving God means keeping his commandments, and his commandments are not burdensome.For every child of God defeats this evil world, and we achieve this victory through our faith." (1 John 5:1-4, NLT)
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Children of the heavenly Father,
Safely in His bosom gather;
Nestling bird nor star in heaven
Such a refuge e'er was given.

God His own doth tend and nourish,
In His holy courts they flourish;
From all evil things He spares them,
In His mighty arms He bears them.

Neither life nor death shall ever,
From the Lord His children sever;
Unto them His grace He showeth,
And their sorrows all He knoweth.

Though He giveth or He taketh,
God His children ne'er forsaketh;
His the loving purpose solely
To preserve them pure and holy.

Children Of The Heavenly Father
Sandell-Berg, Caroline / Olson, Ernest W. / Ahnfelt, Oscar© Public Domain