Tuesday, February 11, 2014

If only I ...


When you’re unhappy or distressed, what do you want most? Would a new job bring satisfaction? How about more money? Or, maybe you are convinced that your spouse is the problem; if he would just be more involved with you? Or, do you need to move, or lose 25 pounds, or escape those miserable in-laws that are always intruding?  Then, again perhaps you are convinced that a new car would be just the thing.  Often our discontent is born from comparison.   

We (yes, all of us to some extent) idealize the life and experience of others:  you know, the whole ‘grass is greener on the other side of the fence’  thing.  God knew this and, in the basic 10, He included this commandment: “You shall not covet your neighbor’s house; you shall not covet your neighbor’s wife, nor his male servant, nor his female servant, nor his ox, nor his donkey, nor anything that is your neighbor’s.” (Exodus 20:17, NKJV)  The Message says: "No lusting after your neighbor’s house—or wife or servant or maid or ox or donkey. Don’t set your heart on anything that is your neighbor’s." (Exodus 20:17, The Message) God knows that coveting creates a mental fertile garden where all kinds of destructive, sinful behaviors grow.

Christians can pray to develop a character trait that comes from the response of faith-  contentment! Before you stop reading, I hasten to add that the Lord does not ask you to ignore the challenges, problems, or disappointments of your life.  Contentment is not resignation to fate, giving up on our dreams, or pretending that life is wonderful. Pain can be a gift when it moves us to seek change. God, the Spirit, creates vision in us, and when coupled with true faith,  it turns into a powerful ability to change life for the better.

So, what does Paul mean when he says he is content?   "I am not saying this because I am in need, for I have learned to be content whatever the circumstances. I know what it is to be in need, and I know what it is to have plenty. I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want." (Philippians 4:11-12, NIV)  He is not looking around comparing his life to that of others.  He is not needy.  No matter where he way – in prison or in the pulpit – Paul was able to make the same declaration. “God is here and He is near.” Can you? Will I?  The Psalmist points the way and invites us to live in this Truth. "The stone the builders rejected has become the capstone; the LORD has done this, and it is marvelous in our eyes. This is the day the LORD has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it. O LORD, save us; O LORD, grant us success." (Psalm 118:22-25, NIV)  Using a mason’s metaphor, he says that a stone thrown on the discard pile yesterday became the most visible decorative one that finished the wall (capstone) today!  When we learn to wait on Him, to give our life to Him, he can take yesterday’s wreckage and make something beautiful out of it.  “God is here and He is near.”

Usually what He changes most is ME, not my situation.  We can choose joy today, Christian. It’s not a ‘can’ kind of question. It is a ‘will’ question. Paul reveals the power of choice in the passage quoted a moment ago.  Twice he says, “I have learned to be content.”  Contentment emerges from the choice to accept that “God is here and He is near.”  

What has you restless today? What ‘sore spot’ in your life is making you long for something you probably should not desire?  Give him your pain, your disappointment.  Yes, tell God about it and then, in faith, leave it with Him.  Thank Him repeatedly with these words; “You are here now. You are near now.”  It’s not just an empty mantra. It’s a prayer. "Pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus." (Philippians 4:6-7, NLT)  Much wiser choices for change are made when our hearts and minds are resting securely in the Presence of God.

The word from the Word is the counsel of the Spirit given to a young man whose circumstances battered him.  His mentor wrote, with inspiration, that Timothy should not seek more money, but rather more “God.”  The result?  Contentment.  "But godliness with contentment is great gain. For we brought nothing into the world, and we can take nothing out of it. But if we have food and clothing, we will be content with that. People who want to get rich fall into temptation and a trap and into many foolish and harmful desires that plunge men into ruin and destruction. For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil. Some people, eager for money, have wandered from the faith and pierced themselves with many griefs. But you, man of God, flee from all this, and pursue righteousness, godliness, faith, love, endurance and gentleness. Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses." (1 Timothy 6:6-12, NIV)
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Give thanks to the Lord,
Our God and King,
His love endures forever!
For He is good, He is above all things,
His love endures forever!
Sing praise, sing praise.

With a mighty hand
And an outstretched arm,
His love endures forever!
For the life that's been reborn,
His love endures forever!
Sing praise, sing praise.

From the rising to the setting sun,
His love endures forever!
And by the grace of God,
We will carry on,
His love endures forever!
Sing praise, sing praise.

Forever God is faithful!
Forever God is strong!
Forever God is with us!
Forever, forever.

Chris Tomlin
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