Panic or Ponder

When I was a younger man, I was convinced that when I reached a certain age, I would have life figured out, that the questions would be settled by time and experience. Many questions have found answers, but many remain. What I now realize more than then is the importance of being willing to wait, to walk through the mystery with faith intact. God’s ways sometimes confound me, sometimes confuse me. How about you?

Faith has taught me to worship Him even in such moments.

The Christmas story brings us a moment like that in the life of Jesus’ mother. We read this: “But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart.” (Luke 2)

That sentence, in the middle of Luke’s story of the birth of Jesus, brings me wonderful peace. Mary was told about God’s plan in Nazareth by an angel and yet at the day of the birth of Jesus when she heard about the angelic announcement during the visit of shepherds, she was left to wonder at it all. It did not make sense to her, at that moment.

Reflecting on that same thought of her wonder, Mark Lowry wrote a song that asks “Mary, did you know…? One of the verses says -

Mary, did you know
That your baby boy is Lord of all creation?
Mary, did you know
That your baby boy will one day rule the nations?
Did you know
That your baby boy is heaven's perfect Lamb?
This sleeping child you're holding
Is the Great I Am?

When that blessed woman stood 33 years later at the foot of the gruesome cross where her Son hung dying I wonder if Mary retreated to that Holy Night, to the words of shepherds and angels she has stored up in her heart so that she could draw comfort from knowing that He and she were in the center of the will of God?

As we live through days where noise and confusion is all too common, when our lives go sideways with disappointment, when the future is murky – let’s be willing to return to the Word of God, to the declaration that “in all things God works for the good of those who love him, who have been called according to his purpose.”  (Romans 8)

When fear pushes us toward panic, let’s choose instead to ponder! As we pause and think, His Spirit can whisper to us about the wonder, the mystery of the Incarnation (God in flesh.)  He is Immanuel - ‘God with us!’

Let’s make sure that in all our celebrations the momentous message is kept in mind. It is summed up this way - "Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is Christ the Lord. This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.” (Luke 2:11-12, NIV)

I pray for you a most blessed Christmas,
a renewal of love for the Savior,
a re-centering of faith on Him, and
a recommissioning to service of the Baby of Bethlehem,
now the Lord of Heaven and Earth, our King!

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The Heavy Burden of Expectations

Our celebration of Christmas usually comes with a burden of great expectations. The bright lights and nostalgic songs stir up different longings in each of us, don’t they? We want to heal broken relationships. We hope to connect with our family in a way that is meaningful. We want to find the kind of faith that settles our restless heart. We wish for …  yes, you would likely answer that question differently than I would.

But there are choices that we can make that will help us to find our way into the New Year with a richer, fuller heart as we reflect on Christmas, 2024.

First, let’s adjust our expectations of ourselves and others!
Deep inside of us, we can become almost childish thinking that surely the carols, the candles, or even Old Saint Nick will change our lives. We love Dicken’s story of the transformation of Old Scrooge in that tale - "Christmas Carol."  Life doesn’t work that way.

Just because it is Christmas that miserable person that rains on your parade is highly unlikely to turn into Sam Sunshine. Be realistic! Know, too, that one gift or gesture, as nice or generous as it may be, cannot erase something hurtful from the past. Face the fact that a marriage that is cracking at the seams won't be repaired by an expensive gift. If we are realistic about the limits of the day, it will help us to celebrate with more joy.

Second, focus on the spiritual part of the Season.
Yep, you've heard that before, too, haven't you? It is celebration of Christ's birthday. You won't find Him on Amazon.com or in the twinkling lights of the decorations. Giving gifts can be a lot of fun. Decorating our homes and offices can add a festive air. Parties are great, sometimes.

It is worship, however, that brings true peace, which connects us to the One who came to be our Prince of Peace. Every year in my pastoral ministry I have urged people to carve out moments in which they can listen to God's voice, pray, meditate, and know Gods’ peace. Mostly we don’t!  But, I hope you will.

Serve someone in the Name of Jesus with no ulterior motive. Go to church having prepared your heart to participate in the corporate acts of worship.

Third, admit to yourself - "I cannot do it all!"
Somebody will be disappointed that you didn't get to their party. Somebody won't get the perfect gift. The pie you bake might turn out with a burnt crust. Uncle Joe may growl at your kids and remind you that you are a failure as a parent. Nobody’s 100%, able to please, and mega-competent.

It's all right to be human. Admit it - first to yourself. If you own your own humanity, it is a way to unload a ton of pressure.

And, don't forget to be child-like.
Give yourself permission to experience some wonder. Let the Grinch be cynical! Laugh at those things that are absurd. Hug Grandma. Sing, even if you can't, and enjoy the experience. Ponder the story of a Baby born in a manger, of Shepherds who heard angels sing, of God come to earth to change everything, including your eternal destiny. Ask God to give you the eyes of a child again.

I think if you'll do these things, January 1st will roll around, and you'll wish it were still Christmas, instead of being glad it is gone for another year. Let me know, won't you?

Read these ancient words today. I pray that you will experience something like the wonder in the word from the Word.

"And so it was, that, while they were there, the days were accomplished that she should be delivered. And she brought forth her firstborn son, and wrapped him in swaddling clothes, and laid him in a manger; because there was no room for them in the inn. And there were in the same country shepherds abiding in the field, keeping watch over their flock by night.

And, lo, the angel of the Lord came upon them, and the glory of the Lord shone round about them: and they were sore afraid. And the angel said unto them, Fear not: for, behold, I bring you good tidings of great joy, which shall be to all people. For unto you is born this day in the city of David a Savior, which is Christ the Lord." (Luke 2:6-11, KJV)
"And all they that heard it wondered at those things ..." (Luke 2:18, KJV)

There we find the hope of humanity, our salvation, and an anchor for all of life’s storms.
Remember Jesus!

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Time to Think About It

Did your Mom ever give you a ‘time out?’  When you were disobedient or making life difficult for her perhaps you heard her say something like this – “You need to go sit on the sofa and get yourself together.” It might have just been a frustrated parent saying, “I need a break.” But, in the best world, it is a discipline aimed at forming some greater awareness, a way for the errant child to hopefully understand what he is doing and how he needs to adjust.

Did you know that God gives us a “time out” occasionally? He never just gets tired and puts us out of sight. His purpose is to help us grow in grace, to come to a place where we are better prepared to receive His will.

Part of the story of Jesus’ birth includes a kind of ‘time out.’  An older priest was selected to be the one who entered the Holy Place bearing incense, offering up the prayers of the people to a Holy God. It was a privileged honor, perhaps the only time he got to do it in his entire lifetime.  While Zechariah was there, God’s messenger showed up telling him he was going to be a father, something that was naturally impossible given the advanced age of his wife, Elizabeth, and himself.

Luke tells the story. Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.”  The angel said to him, “I am Gabriel. I stand in the presence of God, and I have been sent to speak to you and to tell you this good news. And now you will be silent and not able to speak until the day this happens, because you did not believe my words, which will come true at their appointed time.”  (Luke 1: 18-19)

Zechariah got a ‘time out!’  HE had nine months of silence in which to ponder his relationship with God, to think about his depth of faith and the experience changed him. Their son was born just as Gabriel had said. His name? John, the one we call ‘the Baptist’ who was the forerunner of Jesus. His father regained his speech the day he named his son, whose name literally means “The LORD graciously gives.”

Are you questioning God, wondering about His love, pressed by the many activities and responsibilities of life, especially in this Season? Give yourself a ‘time out.’ 

Tish Harrison Warren writes “Advent exists so that every heart can "prepare him room." And this preparation cannot merely be an abstract idea. We prepare Christ's room by rearranging our schedules to prioritize silence, contemplation, and reflection. That doesn't mean we have to escape to a monastery ...  but the call of Advent is to make space and time to be healed and renewed, even if it's only for a few minutes a day.”

As has been said many times, our lives will be overtaken by the tyranny of the urgent unless we learn to put the important things first. God asks us, as His people, to keep Him first, to listen for the whisper of the Spirit and to walk in the Way He plans for us.

Finding that way will require time of worship, time alone to reflect, intentional focus on contemplative prayer. Perhaps you need to give yourself a ‘time out?’

Our word from the Word is a simple prayer, first prayed by a little boy named Samuel, as God called him to a lifetime of service. We would do well to make it our prayer.

“Again the Lord called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.” “My son,” Eli said, “I did not call; go back and lie down.”

Now Samuel did not yet know the Lord: The word of the Lord had not yet been revealed to him. A third time the Lord called, “Samuel!” And Samuel got up and went to Eli and said, “Here I am; you called me.”

Then Eli realized that the Lord was calling the boy. So Eli told Samuel, “Go and lie down, and if he calls you, say, ‘Speak, Lord, for your servant is listening.’” So Samuel went and lay down in his place. The Lord came and stood there, calling as at the other times, “Samuel! Samuel!”

Then Samuel said, “Speak, for your servant is listening.”  (1 Samuel 3)

Here I am, Lord, listening and waiting on You. Amen.

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